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Starting to Question my True Orientation...

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  1. clarkec1

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    Hi.

    I'm in no way jumping to any conclusions; far from it. But I have just realized that I kind of like girls that are more masculine as opposed to more feminine females. I know I am bisexual, and I don't even know if this would change the title of my orientation.

    Let's do this in a list:

    I like boys both romantically and physically (sorry if that's a bit personal) (and by the way, I have never actually got physical (sex) with a boy, or a girl for that matter, and I have no intention of it at this age)

    I like girls only romantically and not physically (or at least that's what I think)

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    I sort of physically like girls that are more masculine, once again I am not reaching a conclusion. I definitely do not feel that much of a physical attraction to girls as I do boys, and I have only discovered and started questioning this a few days ago. I'm thinking that it might just be a phase and that it'll pass eventually, but I don't know.

    If you're wondering I feel the same amount of both romantic and physical attraction for both masculine and feminine boys, but maybe leaning slightly towards masculine boys, but I'm pretty sure that hasn't got anything to do with it. Also, I feel the same amount of romantic attraction for both feminine and the more masculine girls. I don't mean that I adore male body-builders (I think they look horrible actually lol), and I don't adore Gothic male-like women.

    I'm starting to confuse myself. So what do you think? Basically I think that I might prefer masculine girls better than feminine girls in a physical way, but I'm not sure about a romantic way (did that sound a bit... you know. Sorry about that). So finally not to confuse you I have never encountered any sort of physically involved relationship with either gender, and have no intention of until I at least reach the legal age and I think the time is right. And I apologize if I may have seemed a bit rude because I only like masculine girls physically, and I mean that in the kindest way possible. Once again my apologies if I have offended, I'm sure you understand.

    Thank You!!!



    Oh I forgot: I am definitely not turning straight, don't know if that helped, sorry if I just overtook a really good thread in the list.
     
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  2. Hefiel

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    That's funny. I used to have a thing for tomboys, although I initially never quite understood what it was that I found attractive about them. Never had any sexual attraction to them though, only romantic.

    I also had a thing for a Gothic girl with short hair, which also happened to be a friend of mine. She was amazing in Arts, and also played relatively the same video games I did and listened to the same music. Good looking too.

    Can't say it's the same for you though. I think with time things will become clearer.
     
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    Thank you.
     
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    I can so relate to that o.o
     
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    Can I ask ^^^^^^^ how did you post 1,000 post is nearly 2 months??? :lol:
     
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    I guess im talkative? xD
     
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    Even the part with the Gothic girl? :lol:
     
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    Very talkative!
     
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    LOL well no but xD in the tomboy part.Though some years before,i thought i was bi,because i used to watch straight porn and get horny,but actually it was the men and what they did to girls,that made me aroused,so everytime i used to watch a girl,unconsciously i thought i was aroused,but in reality my mind was relating the porn movies xD so yeah..sounds complicated..but yeah.
     
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    I need to ask something. How do you get that quote thing at the bottom of your posts. I really don't know how to do it, I'm thinking of starting one?
     
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    Oh I can definitively relate to that.

    I didn't watch much straight porn though, I've always thought the woman was really faking it, so it was a huge turn-off for me, but I did watch 2 straight porn videos (1 which unfortunately disappeared never to be found again, to my great displeasure at that time) when I still thought I might just be bi, and I thought they were awesome. Just like you though, I was watching the men and what they did to the females. Then I looked at gay porn and never looked back. :lol:
     
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    Well it was similar for me in a way. I was attracted to girls in a romantic sense and boys in a romantic and physical way. That was until I realized that I wasn't really attracted to girls romantically, those feelings were just feelings of friendship. That was when I realized that truly I was just gay and not attracted to girls.
     
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    I'm assuming you're referring to "Signature". You can find it under "My Settings" tab (it's in the blueish bar at the top of the page that contains other tabs like Blogs, FAQ, Member List, Calender, etc).
     
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    Yeah,in Gay porn there is ONLY men :grin: there is nothing better than that really,but but..gay porn did a bad thing to me!I no more use my imagination(maybe ill make a thread for it)Like i watch gay porn and i dont use my imagination,and i cant have sexual fantasies by myself anymore xD gay porn made my mind lazy
     
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    Thanks, now I know!
     
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    It's been the complete opposite for me. Imagination is through the roof. Monsters, tentacles, bondage, orgy. You name it, I've dreamed of it. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I don't watch porn very often though, maybe once a week or every 2 weeks.
     
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    OMG <3 JUST..OMG XD i love all these things,im a kinky person so yeah,mostly foot fetish though and im sumbissive to it xD But i just love monsters and tentacles and stuff..i watch porn often :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I'm sorry, I know I shouldn't really talk about porn saying I don't watch it and think that list,s horrible (I am 13 though) but tentacles? Wow! That's err, interesting. Just thought I'd point that out. You two guys can carry on your conversation now.
     
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    I used to think I might have a foot fetish because of a thing I did with a kid back when I was 5-7 years old, and the thought followed me for a while. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    It's part of the... *cough* discovery stage *cough* of sexuality.
    Translation: Whatever does the job.

    Just kidding. It's different for everybody. Sorry for derailing your thread by the way :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Lol true i believe me and Heifel should start chatting on each others wall :grin:
     
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