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When was your first time?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by WonderEgg, May 31, 2013.

  1. WonderEgg

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    I'm just curious about these sorta things. Oh, and if you could say how it happened, that'd be great! ^_^ (Oh, and I'm a virgin).
     
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    in the future.
     
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    It happened when I was 20. We met at a friend's graduation party, bonded as friends over our shared love of the band Rush, and then started dating and went on a few dates. He was staying over at my place, and after hanging out, we went to bed (in separate beds), and ended up staying awake for at least an hour talking about a lot of personal stuff. Eventually those conversations moved to how far I'd be willing to go sexually, considering how inexperienced I was. Then he asked me, "Can I come over there?"

    And then... :slight_smile:
     
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    17 with the only bf I have ever had I was a boarding school and trying to convince myself I wasn't a lesbian , we are went on a walk in the country and he kissed me and one thing lead to another it was bad and akward I regret it big time I cared to much what people thought of me at that age i wish I'd lost it to someone I cared about prefably in a bed
     
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    Never with a guy, (and it's going to stay that way. XD). I've only gone to "3rd base" with a guy; I was 13. I was 16 when I had sex with a woman.
     
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    Haven't found the right Guy yet, I'm a Virgin also :slight_smile:
     
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    Virgin.But my first time i want it to be romantic and with someone that ive been for with for long time..
     
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    virgin. i was in the process of getting there and it felt great and all that.. then he started feeling under my skirt and i backed out :icon_redf about 7 months ago
     
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    I was 19 when I lost my v card to a girl I was dating. It was awkward and she broke up with me shortly after. I've hooked up w/ girls since then but by the end I would always feel relieved or distraught depending on my performance. I never felt happy about it.

    As for boys... I'm going to hook up w/ a cute guy from my hometown in two weeks. When I came out to him a few weeks ago we talked on the phone extensively and have chatted almost every day since. We're planning on having a FWB kind of situation where we will make a point to meet up whenever I am up there. I'm really excited.

    On that note... Is there a word for people like me that know they are gay, who aren't virgins per se, but have never done it with the same sex?
     
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    November last year (I was 17 then), with my current boyfriend. He took it very slow...It took more than a week before he took me, eventhough I was begging for it since day one. The first days it was fingering, and later he introduced a dildo.
    But in the meantime he had been bottom for me, since he wanted me to be versa, so I had two first times...:icon_wink
     
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    If I recall correctly, it was an incident involving me an my hand :slight_smile:.

    Yeah, I'm a virgin.
     
  12. Unsurevirgin

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    Yes I'm a virgin ,waiting for the right guy or girl to come who has good values and morals and is clean :slight_smile:
     
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    hehehe something finally made me smile
     
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    I still haven't had a first time, and odds are I won't for a long time.
     
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    19 in college after Taekwondo practice.

    A guy hit on me in the showers several times before I finally figured out what he was doing and took him up on the offer. The showerroom was in the basement of the building and not much used so we ended up fooling around in a toilet stall. After that we hooked up a few more times, the last at my apartment.

    After that I took about a year off to work on various aspects of my life and then started to actively pursue hookups with guys. At that point I decided that since I was doing that I must be gay.

    Todd
     
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    that was amazing!
     
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    Havent yet!
     
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    I think it's great that being a virgin is no longer frowned upon :slight_smile:
     
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    In the future :slight_smile:.lol