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Are some of you guys into married men?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tightrope, Jun 4, 2013.

  1. Tightrope

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    There seem to be some guys who have a thing for married guys and getting them into the sack. What are some of the reasons? It's almost like it's a feather in their cap. Have you been attracted to married men? Do you have friends who are?
     
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    No, I've never been attracted to married men. What is the appeal of that?
     
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    Oh yeah, I've gone to bed with a few married dudes. Kidding, of course.

    Anyway, I have been attracted to a couple married guys. But trying to get with people who are married isn't my kinda thing, especially because I know first-hand what that does to a family.
     
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    Not into home wrecking, and have little respect for those who are. Unless it's some mutual agreement between all parties involved, the idea just doesn't flow with me.
     
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    I've found married men attractive, but would never ever ever do anything with a married man. That....just no. Coming from someone who's witnessed it firsthand in his family numerous times, I'm not ever going to be that person.
     
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    I suppose if I were married to one, then sure.
     
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    Nope not at all the idea of ruining a marriage stops me immediately
     
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    A couple of things: I was just wondering if you liked them as eye candy, if you're just going about shopping, downtown, or something like that. Also, what if they came on to you?
     
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    Why does being married make an individual any more or less attractive, unless one has some sort of fetish for being a homewrecker or something?
     
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    Some people find the thought of pursuing the unattainable appealing. It's the challenge, reward, and validation that comes from 'snagging' an otherwise unavailable target - the idea being that they made an exception for you, thanks to your own efforts alone.

    Off limits means off limits. If someone is already in a monogamous relationship, I'm not interested in them that way.
     
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    Valid question. It's more like this. I'm walking down the street or in the store, and see someone who is really handsome. I automatically look at their ring finger. Sometimes there's a gold band. I just happened to look because they were attractive, without knowing whether they were married or not.
     
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    Typically for me it's I become attracted to a guy and then I see they have a ring on their finger, to which I just kind of admire them or get over my feelings. I could never hurt someone like that, it would be a horrible thing to act upon for the person and their partner.
     
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    I've found married men attractive yes. But I would never, ever go to bed with one. Or a married woman in fact. It would go against all senses of my moral values.