There seem to be some guys who have a thing for married guys and getting them into the sack. What are some of the reasons? It's almost like it's a feather in their cap. Have you been attracted to married men? Do you have friends who are?
Oh yeah, I've gone to bed with a few married dudes. Kidding, of course. Anyway, I have been attracted to a couple married guys. But trying to get with people who are married isn't my kinda thing, especially because I know first-hand what that does to a family.
Not into home wrecking, and have little respect for those who are. Unless it's some mutual agreement between all parties involved, the idea just doesn't flow with me.
I've found married men attractive, but would never ever ever do anything with a married man. That....just no. Coming from someone who's witnessed it firsthand in his family numerous times, I'm not ever going to be that person.
A couple of things: I was just wondering if you liked them as eye candy, if you're just going about shopping, downtown, or something like that. Also, what if they came on to you?
Why does being married make an individual any more or less attractive, unless one has some sort of fetish for being a homewrecker or something?
Some people find the thought of pursuing the unattainable appealing. It's the challenge, reward, and validation that comes from 'snagging' an otherwise unavailable target - the idea being that they made an exception for you, thanks to your own efforts alone. Off limits means off limits. If someone is already in a monogamous relationship, I'm not interested in them that way.
Valid question. It's more like this. I'm walking down the street or in the store, and see someone who is really handsome. I automatically look at their ring finger. Sometimes there's a gold band. I just happened to look because they were attractive, without knowing whether they were married or not.
Typically for me it's I become attracted to a guy and then I see they have a ring on their finger, to which I just kind of admire them or get over my feelings. I could never hurt someone like that, it would be a horrible thing to act upon for the person and their partner.
I've found married men attractive yes. But I would never, ever go to bed with one. Or a married woman in fact. It would go against all senses of my moral values.