So, I was speaking to a fairly new friend of mine who doesn't know I'm gay, and she was surprised that I've never had a girlfriend, because I'm apparently a charmer and seem like a ladies' man (in a good way ). Firstly, I found it hilariously ironic, then I realised that I might actually subconsciously flirt with girls, and that's why practically no-one thinks I'm gay. Anyone else have this image/problem?
Haha. Though it might be said that apart from in sex, gay men might often be better boyfriends than straight men.
I have been told that by a few female friends who found it weird how easy I talked to them when I first met them, actively listened, etc. but never asked them out. I'll never be a "man's man" (as in, the equivalent of a gay "ladies' man") because I get really shy around guys I like. I guess I am more comfortable around girls because I know it'll never go anywhere and the ease with which I speak to them may translate as some kind of flirting. Best compliment I got from a lady was when I visited my grandma at a nursing home. An old senile lady, bless her heart, said, "My my, tall, dark, and handsome, mmm mmm."
Hah, maybe it's because they can somewhat tell that your aim is not to get in their pants? A couple days ago, I was talking to maybe 3 or 4 girls at once when my friend mentioned the irony of the situation (that specific friend likes to come really close to outing me just to annoy me -_-) That reminds me of this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-YCdcnf_P8&html5=1
People tell me the same thing, it gets annoying when people ask why I don't have a girlfriend. Or when family members ask me when I'll get one. (I'm not out)
i am a ladies man, i understand them, their needs, their passions and their thoughts, i takes a time to do all this,but once i am set, i am proactive to their needs, passions and throughts
