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How old were you when you lost your virginity

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by StefaniW, Jun 7, 2013.

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When did you lose your virginity

  1. Under 18 (specify age)

    26 vote(s)
    19.1%

  2. 18-30 (specify)

    31 vote(s)
    22.8%

  3. Over 30 (specify)

    1 vote(s)
    0.7%

  4. Haven't yet

    78 vote(s)
    57.4%
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  1. StefaniW

    StefaniW Guest

    I'm 18 and I haven't yet XD

    I have had offers but I'm not in that place....perhaps I shall ever be a virgin, lololol.

    You?
     
    #1 StefaniW, Jun 7, 2013
  2. Dublin Boy

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    Haven't lost it with a Man Yet :slight_smile:
     
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  4. Tetraquark

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    Haven't slept with anyone in any capacity yet, but I'm fine with it. I have yet to meet someone who I was attracted to in such a way as to desire sex.
     
    #4 Tetraquark, Jun 7, 2013
  5. AwesomGaytheist

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    I was raped by a cousin at 9, but I lost my real v-card when I was 16 when my now BF came out to me. I was over at his house, and he sat me down on his bed and just said, "I'm gay, and I like you a lot." I kissed him, and he said, "That said it all."

    Later that night, he came back to my house and spent the night and we took it really slow so it didn't hurt him. I thought I'd died and gone to heaven.
     
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    Haven't yet. My tombstone will probably read: "Only loser, ah, guy of his generation to never lose his virginity."
     
    #6 BMC77, Jun 7, 2013
  7. Oddish

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    17.
     
    #7 Oddish, Jun 7, 2013
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    Did it with a woman at age 35. I didn't want to be a cliche' (forty year old virgin). Haven't gone all the way with a man (anal sex).
     
    #8 biggayguy, Jun 7, 2013
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  9. StefaniW

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    Gaytheist (coolest. name. EVA),

    I'm very sorry to hear that happened to you. I'm glad you were later able to find someone to make your real first time special, though :slight_smile:
     
    #9 StefaniW, Jun 7, 2013
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    I was 21.
     
    #10 justjade, Jun 7, 2013
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    I'll never get the real answer, but I've wondered if the abuse turned me gay. I was more into girls than guys when I was younger, but as time went on, I became less and less interested in girls to where I am today, I identify as full-on gay.

    I'm glad you like my name. I was originally going to go with "The Amazing Gaytheist," but that was too many characters.
     
    #11 AwesomGaytheist, Jun 7, 2013
  12. StefaniW

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    Gaytheist,

    I really don't think so. That just isn't how it works, you know. By the time you were 9, it was already determined that you would be gay. Feelings for girls and boys that young are super hard to identify. You prolly just connected more with your girl friends emotionally at that age and weren't interested in boys yet cause you weren't interested in sex.

    It is unfair to yourself to say that he was able to change you like that or have that control over you. Please don't give him that power, he doesn't deserve it. Nor does he deserve the credit of supplying you with a faaabulous community. That was all genes, boy!
     
    #12 StefaniW, Jun 7, 2013
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    *siiiighhh* Uhh...14. :icon_redf
     
    #13 Gipsy, Jun 7, 2013
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    I've only slept with men, and I lost my virginity when I was 18.
     
    #14 julia, Jun 7, 2013
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    23 and I haven't yet. Only just realized my orientation though, so the search for a suitable mate is just beginning. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Not at all with a man, but 15 I got to 2nd base with a girl :grin:
     
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    Still got my v-card.

    Foreveraloneness.
     
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  20. StefaniW

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    Wayne, I still consider that to be virginity, but I haven't even gotten that far. True facts, I have never even gotten to first base, like, for rls! I'm like the definition of virgin, lolz. Like I said, I had offers but I was never in the right place. Very recently actually a guy wanted me to give him a BJ, but I dunno. It wouldn't have been right for me.

    Sometimes I wonder if I'm just like asexual. I think guys are hawt, really, I do, and I love the idea of being in a relationship with one and I get butterflies around one I like. But sex...? Grr. I dunno how important it is to me....maybe that will change the further I get in my transition and the more comfortable I am with myself? I don't KNOW, okay?
     
    #20 StefaniW, Jun 7, 2013
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