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How would you like to lose your virginity?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Hexagon, Jun 10, 2013.

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How do you want/would you have liked to lose your virginity?

  1. During causal sex (one night stand, friends with benefits etc)

    10 vote(s)
    13.0%
  2. To someone who means a great deal to you romantically

    58 vote(s)
    75.3%
  3. After marriage

    2 vote(s)
    2.6%
  4. Don't want to lose it

    1 vote(s)
    1.3%
  5. Not bothered

    6 vote(s)
    7.8%
  1. Hexagon

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    Or for those who have, what way would you have preferred to have lost it (regardless of how you actually lost it)?
     
  2. StefaniW

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    Definitely to someone who means a great deal to me romantically. Although for just right now, I have way to much sh*t to get together for that to happen any time in the forseeable future :\
     
  3. Bobbybobby99

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    I want to lose it with someone who I don't know first, bacause then I won't be a total inept when I meet my soulmate.
     
  4. Boyfriend

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    I voted "To someone who means a great deal to you romantically". But in my case that was more afterwards...
    It was actually a "love at first sight" thing, so it´s not like I´d known him for long before we ended in bed-actually within minutes we were fooling around-,but it seemed like it and it felt all good.
     
  5. BryanM

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    I voted to someone who means a lot to me romantically, because I wouldn't want to make someone feel horrible if it was a one night stand, and they were expecting more from it, or if someone did it to me.
     
  6. Oddish

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    I would've preferred it not so awkward and maladroit.

    I actually would've preferred to not lost it at all. It mainly just re-confirmed my asexuality, though it was neither's fault, just the act itself. At least I had it with somebody I do care about, and the feeling is mutual.
     
  7. ScatteredEarth

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    I personally would prefer a one night stand because I just want a test of the waters to see what I would be later on down the road.
     
  8. vrrml

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    i would rather it was really good with someone i didn't care about than really awkward with someone important to me. then when i do it with someone important i would be less likely to make a complete fool out of myself.
     
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    I chose the option 'To someone who means a great deal to you romantically'.

    I find it so amusing that nobody put 'I don't want to'. Shows how us humans just want sex.
     
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    I didn't vote because I wasn't sure which one to choose. I want her to mean something to me but it doesn't have to be romantically, being hugely attracted to her would be enough for me. And I want it to be memorable as well. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I probably have unrealistic expectations though...
     
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    Someone who means a lot to me definitely.
    I m not too worried about it to be honest, I am quite scared about the experience actually.
     
  12. If I were to have sex with someone, she would need to mean a lot to me. I couldn't have casual sex.
     
  13. BMC77

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    "To someone who means a great deal to you romantically"

    This is the closest match. It would not have to be Mr. Right Forever...but it would have to be something other than a casual hookup.
     
  14. drwinchester

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    The way I'd like to lose it is dependant on biology I don't have so- Oh. Well, preferably with someone I was close to. Wouldn't want some casual hook-up, what's the point of awkwardly fumbling around and never seeing them again? :|
     
  15. AwesomGaytheist

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    I lost my v-card the way you're meant to-with someone you love and care deeply about. Now if you want me to describe losing my virginity, well, that might get saucy (!)
     
  16. Tetraquark

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    I have a slight preference for having my sexual experience be with someone I already know well, mainly for safety reasons. However, I put that I'm not bothered because as long as it's enjoyable, I wouldn't care all that much. Actually, I'm not sure that I care whether I ever do it. I would much prefer to experience non-sexual intimacy.
     
  17. Unknown5

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    I want lose it with somebody that I am romantically connected 2
     
  18. JackAttack

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    I would prefer it with someone I care about about greatly. I wouldn't be able to trust a stranger and I would feel more comfortable with some I care deeply about.
     
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    Not bothered. The situation in which I lost it is of greater worth to me than the "loss" itself.
     
  20. Hexagon

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    I don't mind. I'm not even sure I want to, but if I feel like having sex, then I have no problems having it with someone I'm not romantically connected to. I suppose sex doesn't mean a whole lot to me.