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LGBT guys: Top or bottom?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by AwesomGaytheist, Jun 10, 2013.

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LGBT guys, top or bottom?

  1. Top

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    13.3%
  2. Bottom

    41 vote(s)
    36.3%
  3. Both

    51 vote(s)
    45.1%
  4. Neither

    6 vote(s)
    5.3%
  1. AwesomGaytheist

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    Don't answer if you don't want to, but top or bottom? Or both? Or neither?

    Personally, I'm a top all the way. I've never bottomed before. I suck him and fuck him.
     
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  2. Bobbybobby99

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    Never actually done the deed, but you know mentally anyways, ya know. Bottom all the way. The idea of topping is kinda... Well, ick for me but I suppose I could do it, if I had too. Wouldn't be my ideal relationship dynamic, but I could do it if I found someone I really liked and they only bottomed. Still want to bottom though and still identify as a bottom.
     
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    I'm a virgin but i'd top. I don't want anything going near my ass personally.
     
  4. Red and Blue

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    I fancy myself a top primarily but could see myself doing either. This is all speculation as I have not been with a man yet but I can make an educated guess.
     
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    I answered bottom, since I've always bottomed except for one time. I like letting another man take control, and climaxes are greatly enhanced while bottoming. Not opposed to topping though if the other guy is an exclusive bottom.
     
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    Both, in ways. But I'd rather bottom, and if I have to 'top', I'd prefer to use a toy on my mate as I suck him off...
     
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    I believe in giving and receiving.
     
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    I'm an exclusive bottom - I like the submissive aspect of it.
     
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    I honestly think the reason I won't bottom is because I was forced to do exactly that when I was 9. Strange that I have no problem blowing my boyfriend when that was the other thing my cousin made me do
     
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    Imagination makes me think bottom.
     
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    I like both receptive and penetrative anal intercourse.

    Sorry, I just have to snicker about the LGBT guys thing. I'm definitely a lesbian guy. :grin:
     
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    Okay, stupid question I should probably know the answer to by now...do the terms "top" and "bottom" only refer to anal sex? Because for a while I thought that was the case, but recently I've heard the terms being used to describe general dominance or submissiveness in sex as well.

    Anyways, I answered neither because, frankly, I hate anal sex. I've never actually done it, but it's just one of those things I know, for a fact, I would not like at all. No offense to anyone else, but it's just a personal preference (or lack, thereof) of mine.

    However, if the terms are used to describe general dominance or submissiveness, definitely top. I'm still a virgin, but I'd like to be the one in charge.
     
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    Top and bottom is which partner does what during anal sex. The top is the guy doing the fucking, and the bottom is the guy getting fucked.
     
  14. King

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    Though you could also apply them to general dominance/submissiveness.
     
  15. Bobbybobby99

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    So someone giving a blowjob is topping?
     
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    Uh, bottom. It fits with the role I play when I'm with a guy anyway...I'm petite in stature and shy in personality so I'm just kinda automatically inclined toward playing a passive role. Plus I kinda like being dominated, I'm naturally submissive. Though I would like to at least try topping at some point...


    And yeah lol the "LGBT guys" thing doesn't really work. I recall that fat idiot Rush Limbaugh used to "joke" about how he was a lesbian trapped in a man's body and that's why he loves women so much. :rolleyes:
     
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    Okay, so GBT guys, top or bottom?
     
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    I'd prefer to top, but I wouldn't mind being bottom either.
     
  19. drwinchester

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    Virgin but I find it hard to see myself as anything but a top. Being the penetrative partner is an idea that completley turns me off. And I know it's like, well, what the fuck Memphis? How are you going to be a top? To that, gentlemen, I respond with an errand to a certain type of store.
     
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    I'm the same way. I just don't like the idea of bottoming. I haven't had much experience in the bedroom to be honest, but I don't know. It doesn't appeal to me.