Noticing the Opposite Sex?

Yes, I do. I identify as a Kinsey 6 as well, but I do notice good-looking guys...but only because I wish I could look like that. There's absolutely no sexual attraction or interest, so I see it as envy. If I was a good-looking straight guy, it'd be so much easier. I would see an attractive guy and think, "Man, all the girls must think he's so hot. If only that could be me..." :lol:

 

I can they look nice has dressed etc, but theres nothing there for me that way.

 

I am constantly noticing the opposite sex. And I'm all like "daaayum"

I will just switch this around and change it to same-sex and say that I see other girls as pretty. Eva Longoria is soooo hawt, for example, and I even notice when a girl is pretty when I go out and think how I like her hair, clothes, makeup, etc. But I am not really attracted to them at all.

Didn't answer the poll cuz I'm like a Kinsey 0, sooo...

 

Yes, I can notice attractiveness. I don't feel "10 out of 10 would bang" like my friends always say, but I can still tell what others will like.
"Seeing a vagina was like a painting in a museum. Maybe not a painting that you like yourself, but you're like, 'Oh, I bet someone would pay a lot of money for that.'" -Davey Wavey

 

It doesn't take a very observant person to notice the attributes of another. I don't think I would put much faith in the words of an individual that claims to be completely oblivious to the opposite or same sex.

Not to mention, I have to spend a lot of time thinking of appearances/personalities for characters for my writing.

 

Sure, but it's a different kind of attractive. When women, I can think that they're attractive in an objective way, the same way I might admire the way the notes in Für Elise play off of each other. But it's all in my head, and it's not a very visceral reaction. With men (hot men, specifically), it's not just a matter of looking at them and liking the way they're proportioned. Something inside of me stirs that just doesn't stir when I look at a woman: that rush of hormones, that way my eyebrows automatically rise to allow my eyes to take in more, the stiring in my loins. It's more like listening to a death metal song; I can't explain why I feel it as much as I do, but I definitely do.

You ask me to say why I think a woman is attractive and I can see, "Well I like the way her hair frames her face, and I like the way her lipstick matches her outfit, and I like how her sunglasses are the same color as her shoes, and..." But if you ask me why a guy is attractive, the best I can do is, "Because look at that body!" :lol:

:roflmao:

 

I love girls and I generally find girls more attractive than boys.

I also openly flirt with girls, which convinced my ex I was actually bisexual...

 

Yeah, I notice girls all the time. Very hot, girls are.

Don't worry, I didn't vote.

 

I am gay (maybe 6) and I know and notice a "hot" girl when I see one. But it's more like watching a painting in a museum; you notice and admire it, but you don't want to sleep with it, if that makes sense.

 

Me same i just didnt word it right

 

Definitely. I'm a Kinsey 6 and I totally can point out if a woman is beautiful.

 

Hey I'm gay, not blind. It's not a big deal to notice attractive people of the opposite sex

 

I went with "Agree." But as usual, I guess it's more complicated for me than a check box vote. Is this news?

I think most women frankly leave me feeling cold. I see a Prom Queen or Miss America type, and I can at least sometimes see the beauty that would have a straight a guy whipping through a box of tissues as he enjoys fantasies about her. But it's entirely intellectual for me. Inside I feel dead and cold. Even intellectually, I have little interest.

I do see some women, however, who don't leave me feeling cold. Indeed, these women were what made me think I might be bisexual all these years. Maybe I was once...maybe not, and it was denial. No matter. In any case, I feel no sexual attraction now. In any case, these women are generally not beautiful in the Miss America sense. They generally have something else--some sort of inner beauty.

I can appreciate inner beauty on men. But I also find myself regularly turned on just by seeing a good looking man.

 

Yeah this is pretty much the same as me. I know when someone is pretty or not, its not that difficult If they are easier to look at then some people, then they must be pretty But yeah as AlamoCity said I can pick a cute girl out of a crown but sexually that's not for me

 

Only into guys, but I definitely find girls attractive.
I like watching them dance. *_* Like all the music video girls.

 

Different spin here. And no apologies. We all have to be who we are.

Watched the beauty pageant last night. When they got down to the semifinalists, I easily picked out who I thought was the best looking. I then later went to my homepage and she had in fact won.

The things that went through my head:
"She's stunning."
"I wonder what guy gets to be her boyfriend or husband."

 

I put agree, as I do in fact notice a girl who looks particularly bad :lol:

 

The opposite sex. I notice a lot. Kinsey 0 so poll can remain unanswered by me.