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Does anyone else (gay guys) jump between wanting a BF and then not?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Gazza123, Jun 19, 2013.

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  1. Gazza123

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    Cuz I sure do

    It drives me bonkers sometimes cuz I'd be like "I want a BF" and then the next minute I'm like "I don't want a BF, I'm fine as I am"

    It's like this eternal loop. I like me life as it is and having a BF would only ruin it then there is the flip side if it "I want companionship and a relationship"

    I just don't know...

    So does this happen to anyone else?
     
    #1 Gazza123, Jun 19, 2013
  2. BornInTexas

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    I fluctuate between "I want a boyfriend" to "I don't need a boyfriend right now... I still want it one, though."
     
    #2 BornInTexas, Jun 19, 2013
  3. wayne1983

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    Yeah im same sort of i suppose:confused:
     
    #3 wayne1983, Jun 19, 2013
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    Not really, atm I don't know about a bf but I certainly want "someone". I'm really craving some company.
     
    #4 Diego89, Jun 19, 2013
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    Take out the "jump in between" and that describes me. I want someone. #foreveralone :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #5 BryanM, Jun 19, 2013
  6. sugarcubeigloo

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    I go through that. Especially when I go to bed: I think it would be nice to have someone next to me. Then I wake up in the morning thinking, "Nah! I'm pretty independent. I don't need someone shaking up my morning routine." But in the long run, I do want someone.
     
    #6 sugarcubeigloo, Jun 19, 2013
  7. Hefiel

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    Pretty much the same. "I want a boyfriend, but I'm not in a hurry for one either".
     
    #7 Hefiel, Jun 19, 2013
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    yep
     
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    That's me all the time. One day I want one, the next I don't because "I'm a strong independent black woman who don't need no man".
     
    #9 Daydreamer1, Jun 19, 2013
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    Haha, yeah I know exactly what you mean!
     
    #10 caughtbywitness, Jun 19, 2013
  11. Bobbybobby99

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    I fluctuate between "I really need a boyfriend" to "AHHHHH! Give me boyfriend now, Universe!"
     
    #11 Bobbybobby99, Jun 19, 2013
  12. leer

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    I do sometimes wish I had someone to cuddle up to . and also after Ive had to meany beers my hormones tend to have I mind of its own .
     
    #12 leer, Jun 19, 2013
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    Yes. Sometimes I have an overwhelming desire to have a boyfriend, and other times I could care less.
     
    #13 Byron, Jun 19, 2013
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