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My crush likes someone else.. *SOBS*

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by somegirl, Jun 20, 2013.

  1. somegirl

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    Basically, I like someone who likes someone else ( a guy, cus she's straight ) and he apparently likes her back. So yeah I'm really upset about it.

    Any advice ??
     
  2. john1b1

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    I feel you. Sometimes there really is nothing you can do about it, and that is a horrible feeling. But you have to move on. You can't spend all your time pining after people who are off limits. I hope things start looking up for you!
     
  3. Hexagon

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    Accept that you can't date this girl. Then move on.
     
  4. King

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    Really that's the only sound advice.
     
  5. Rexmond

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    Yup. As harsh as it may seem, the best advice for you is to move on. :slight_smile:
     
  6. somegirl

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    How do I move on?

    I mean we haven't been talking for a good few weeks, we had a massive fall out, and I'm still crazy about her
     
  7. I've been wondering about this too. People always say "move on" or "get over it/him/her etc." but it would be better if they elaborated on how.
     
  8. Valerie

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    I agree with the others, you have to move on..

    Because if a straight guy was crushing on you and you were crushing on a girl, I don't think you would appreciate that he tries to get you, even though he knows that you are a lesbian..

    It's the same for her. I don't think that she will turn lesbian because you try to stop her to be with a guy.. if that makes sense!
     
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    Ok, this is the most useful piece of advice. I mean yeah, she won't like the fact I think of her as more than a friend. So, yeah I guess that's helped. Thankyou