The future

My plans

1. Get a PhD, do some some worthwhile research

2. Learn to accept my sexuality properly, stop looking back at what I should have done, what I have done wrong. The whole "Loving Yourself"

3. After PhD spend at least a year doing voluntary work full time, roughing it in hostels etc.

4. Hopefully get married/partnered to some guy I love

5. Adopt a couple of kids, I want to be a Dad so much its unreal

6. Look after my parents and stuff when they get older. I would never ever put them into a home or anything, if they became in need of care I would find a way around it. Even becoming a full time carer for them if needed. They love me unconditionally, I want to love them the same

 

My plans...

1Get accepted to a college for soccer, hopefully Portland Pilots or North Carolina TAR heels
2Get a degree in communications
3Tell all friends and family about my sexual orientation

 

Get my GED, find a job as a server, put myself through cosmetology school, work as a hair stylist, and get surgery.

I would like kids down the line. A husband/boyfriend/partner would be nice but not necessary XD

 

cosmetology ?

 

1. Get my GED
2. Get a part time job
3. Go to college
4. Get a better paying job
5. Find a place of my own
6. Hopefully start publishing my novels.
7. Maybe find a str or ltr along the way.

 

Graduate from high school
Enroll in University next year in January
Move into dorms [hopefully with girlfriend but who knows]
Work on my major
Promote campus activism and become a motivational speaker
Write something
Get top surgery at some point in my life
Graduate with whatever degree and credentials
Get a nice job
Travel around
Buy a home
Live with a lovely person for the rest of my life
Perhaps have kids, don't know
Be happy

 

Graduate college with a decent ATAR
Go to university to study law
Do masters in law to get it over with in one go
Apply for a job in the public service
Have a home, a husband, and maybe kids
Travel (hopefully with work)
Read, write, study
Retire and be a grumpy old man.

 

The entire concept of 'the future' scares the SHIT out of me... But I do have a couple of plans/dreams that I've kinda thought about while daydreaming

My realistic goals;
1. Finish uni with a 2:1 or (if I can manage it) a first
2. Train as an English Teacher
3. Get a job and hopefully inspire some kids to give a shit about reading and writing
4. Clear my student dept
5. Get married
6. Own a house

My insane dreams:
1. Get some writing published. I spend all my spare time writing and take creative writing modules on my course at uni, it would be nice to see that turn into something real.
2. Have a kid (The process is long, complicated, and expensive). I'm really good with babies and little kids and I think I'd be a good Dad.

 

1. Graduate from SWIHA
2. Possibly go back for my degree.
3. Become a professional artist (NOT realistic at this point)
4. Get the hell out of West Virginia.
5. Get some of the stuff on my bucketlist done (learn to blow glass, make some furniture, make some pottery, travel to a foreign country)
6. Retire (which I already know isn't going to happen at the rate things are going)

 

Come out to rest of family
Graduate high school (possibly as valedictorian or salutatorian)
Get accepted into my dream college
Major in journalism and minor in broadcasting
Get a job as an investigative journalist or an analyst on TV
Find a boyfriend/husband and possibly have kids
Save up enough money to buy a nice house somewhere
Travel abroad
Retire and give what money I don't need to charity

 

That's like beauticians, like hair stylists (which is what I want to do, but you learn how to do it all at cosmetology schools, nails, makeup, etc). I really would looove to do something like that. It sounds like a lot of fun, and it's such an accepting field for a transperson to get into.

My sister's girlfriend is a massage therapist and she tried to get me into that, but I dunno....naked people.....moles....with hairs growing out of them, blech XD and her girlfriend has had some reeeal creeps think they were going to get more for their tips than she was going to give, sooo...

 

- Graduate college (I still have no idea what I want to major in. I'm flipfloppity again.)
- Move from this tiny town in the middle of Hell to Seattle, or somewhere near Seattle
- Learn more on the way

That's literally all I have so far.

 

Graduate high school
Go to college(I'm not sure what I want to do yet)
Become independent then come out
Travel/ enjoy life
Settle down
...I know its vague but that's all I've really pegged down at this point...

 

*Ahem* Here we go.

1. Go to college(Psychology/Screenwriting Double Major)
2. Go to Grad school for my PhD in Behavioral Neurosciences.
3. Write/Publish the first few books of my first series while in college. (I'll be there for a while...)

Now 3 things can happen.

1. My novels can do exceedingly well and I can have a bit more freedom with the direction of my life. Which would mean focusing on my career as a novelist, screenwriter, etc.

2. I can immediately get a job using my PhD or Masters in Screenwriting.

3. I can go to med school off of my PhD, get my MD, and practice as a psychiatrist. I would most likely go into private practice, because it would allow me to continue leaving time to write.

Option one, fingers crossed!! Even if my novels do end up being very successful, I will still get my PhD. I love neurosciences and psychology.

 

Here goes...

1. Get published. In all hopes, become a best selling author. Or, at the very least, have something in the bookstore so I may delude myself into thinking I'm a best selling author.

2. Go to college, strike out on own.

3. Transition, bulk up, look good whilst doing it

4. Possibly get married/settle down

5. Adopt dogs, potentially a kid

6. Move to Portland/Seattle and or Toronto

7. Activism

8. Develop a fine sense of humor. Perhaps an accent to go with it.

9. Be generally interesting.

 

1. Find a place of my own
2. Graduate college
3. Teach
4. Try to get my Masters in Math Education while teaching
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     and somewhere in there is get married (hopefully)

 

1. Go to a UC school to get a bachelor's or master's in accounting or marketing.
2. Get a boyfriend.
3. Move to a middle class city instead of where I live which is more working and low-class.
4. Find a job in accounting.
5. Marry and have kids.

 

1. Finish my last year of college.
2. Graduate
3. a. go to graduate school in NYC or b. remain down here in Atlanta
4. Rent an apartment with my boyfriend and live together

 

1. Work hard at my job and get a good solid reputation
2. Transfer to a therapist out here
3. Continue getting my face lasered off
4. ... um what's a good way to put this. Well I won't but I guess I could get prosthetics so I'd have literal balls of steel. Yeah that's pretty metal. The PC way of saying step 5 is "orchie", and I am really looking forward to it
5. Continue my transition at my own pace without the T factories
6. When the pieces are in place come out at work and go full time. Hopefully I keep my job but at the very least step 1 will keep some doors open for me.
7. See my little open source project through
8. Go somewhere safe to launch my little open source project
9. And step 8's pretty much my life goal so whatever happens after that is unplanned