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  1. jay18to

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    I was just wondering what do you think of guys that have been straight there whole life that have watched transsexual porn are those men considered gay, bi, or in denial i don't mean to offend anyone here i am just wondering
     
    #1 jay18to, Jun 28, 2013
  2. StefaniW

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    You are obsessing. Seriously you are clearly veeerry OCD.

    I am not even going to address the fact that transwomen are WOMEN and being attracted to us just makes you straight (seriously NO gay guy is attracted to transwomen). That was just a trigger obviously.

    Hope you can work this out and realize you are really just 100% straight but posting repetitive/redundant messages is NOT the way to do that. Not trying to be mean, just saying.
     
    #2 StefaniW, Jun 28, 2013
  3. jay18to

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    Im sorry but it's like i just can't let it go every time i think i can the thought just comes back
     
    #3 jay18to, Jun 28, 2013
  4. drwinchester

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    Dude, they're straight. If you're primarily attracted to women, then the fact that you're attracted to a woman who was assigned at birth male means, pardon my French, jack shit. So what? They're still women... It's nothing to worry about. Take a deep breath.
     
    #4 drwinchester, Jun 28, 2013
  5. StefaniW

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    Deeerp that is like the DEFINITION of OCD. My mother is extremely OCD (among other things) and I remember getting really REALLY frustrated with her cuz everytime she would go on and on about one of her bizarre obsessions (like she thought social services were coming for us at different times), I would finally talk her down and the teeeny little doubt would come back and she would be off again and full blown.

    There are coping mechanisms I . I don't know what my mom does I would have to ask her. She DOES take medicine but that is for her bipolar I don't think she takes anything for her OCD. But whatever she does she deals with it so it's obviously not impossible.
     
    #5 StefaniW, Jun 28, 2013
  6. jay18to

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    I've tested by myself my gay porn i didn't get aroused but how do i know if im actually not aroused are am i forcing myself not to be aroused it's the same way when i try to test myself by thinking of a scenario with another man
     
    #6 jay18to, Jun 28, 2013
  7. drwinchester

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    Alright... Look. Obviously you're not attracted to men. If you're turned on by a woman who happens to be trans*, then you're attracted to a woman 100%.
     
    #7 drwinchester, Jun 28, 2013
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    Well you should probably try harder, because that sure as hell was offensive.
     
    #8 Hexagon, Jun 28, 2013
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    Im very sorry but this has just been bothering me
     
    #9 jay18to, Jun 28, 2013
  10. drwinchester

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    It really shouldn't...
     
    #10 drwinchester, Jun 28, 2013
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    Look, seriously mate. You've asked this question so many times, and you're not going to get new answers to it. The people involved in "transsexual porn" are women, and you don't suddenly become gay or bisexual because you looked at a woman. You mentioned that you don't get attracted to men in porn, ergo you are heterosexual. To be as concerned as you are about this seems characteristic of OCD, and if you are concerned about this to the point where you can't get on with your life, perhaps you should consider seeing a therapist.
     
    #11 Hexagon, Jun 28, 2013
  12. StefaniW

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    ^Ditto times a thousand.
     
    #12 StefaniW, Jun 28, 2013
  13. jay18to

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    I mean my mom tells me im overreacting and i should just let it go
     
    #13 jay18to, Jun 28, 2013
  14. drwinchester

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    She's absolutely right- dude, just let it go.
     
    #14 drwinchester, Jun 28, 2013
  15. jay18to

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    But all i have are these what if questions in my head i've been thinking about this for months
     
    #15 jay18to, Jun 28, 2013
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    What is your worst fear?
     
    #16 gravechild, Jun 28, 2013
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    jay18to,

    You have made eight threads on this subject. I understand you are panicking, but please understand.

    Most of us here are gay. We KNOW what it's like to question ourselves. And we sure as hell know what it's like to be gay. Trust me, you are NOT. You just happened to be turned on by women who were born into the wrong bodies. They are still women. Stop worrying. You are going to be fine.

    I don't mean to be harsh, but you need to listen. You are going to be okay.(*hug*)
     
    #17 Chickenlover, Jun 28, 2013
  18. jay18to

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    My worst fear would probably be my mother dying
     
    #18 jay18to, Jun 28, 2013
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    I really don't think you're gay, but if you wish to convince yourself something is there and go through the whole coming out process (?) you're free to stay and do just that :confused:

    I wouldn't recommend it, though.
     
    #19 gravechild, Jun 28, 2013
  20. jay18to

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    Can i ask why are you here at EC
     
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