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When's the last time you've had a crush?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Theagonist, Jun 29, 2013.

  1. Theagonist

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    For me, it's been a while; I guess early December. And he liked me too, and everything was going so smoothly, but we could never talk since my mom destroyed my phone, and I couldn't drive, so things kind of fell apart:frowning2:
     
  2. drwinchester

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    Last time? Try now. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  3. timo

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    Eerrrm, not counting the two-day-you're-cute-crushes but the serious ones... somewhere around december or january I guess. He was very good looking and funny but I hardly ever saw him and I was too awkward to ask him out.

    A month later he got in a relationship with a guy he knew from uni, a guy who is pretty much the opposite of me when it comes to looks and interests so I don't think I would've stood a chance :grin:
     
  4. StefaniW

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    Umm a guy I knew not that long ago, we met at the place I was working and I had a BIG crush on him. He liked me too apparently and didn't care I was trans but I think it was an experiment for him in the end, sooo....

    And in the end it turned out the same as it has with my last couple flirtations: me refusing to give a BJ. And me still a virgin, yaaay. But I mean at least this guy wasn't obnoxious about it...
     
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    Probably about two months ago, the crush had been lasting for a while but he had a girlfriend.

    The reason I had been having hope is because he was acting very vague about the relationship which led me to think it must have been a substitute to cover up his homosexuality. But the relationship is facebook official now, so that was like the final cut. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  6. Tetraquark

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    It depends on how you define crush. Using the broadest sense, I crush on pretty much every bishonen character in every anime I watch. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Considering that I watch a lot of anime, that means I'm nursing some mild feelings for a character almost all the time.

    On a more serious note, I've only had three or four crushes on real people, and only one was serious. I first acknowledged the last one, which was my first on a girl and the most serious one by far, in January of last year. We haven't spoken since a couple months after that, but, judging by the fact that I burst into tears when my therapist said her name on Thursday, I'm still not over her. :/
     
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    My last crush was on my ex but it turned into something deeper. I end up having deep feelings for her ....I'm too afraid to say ...i ended up falling in love with her for some reason
     
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    My last one was probably about two years ago. I think that was the only one I had.
     
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    I've had my fair few crushes, (one right now but don't wanna talk about it) But the main crush i had was my girl best friend's brother
    She hooked us up cause she knew i liked him :confused: turned out he didn't feel the same way, i was too "boy" for him... and i knew it. He didn't want me :icon_sad: and anyway he ended up finding someone. But my best friend never told me.. and he never dumped me

    So one day i went over to their house and found a valentines card i thought it was my friend i was all excited for her and like "Who is he then?" :eusa_danc and then i read....it....:confused: from HER

    it crushed my heart...she said she didn't want to tell me and he didn't have the balls to dump me. I admired her trying to make it so i wouldn't get hurt... but it hurt way more than just being dumped :tears:

    I ran out of their house crying and went home eventually after walking around in the street crying...

    He hurt me...so my best friend made his life hell for it :')
    then turned out he wanted to get back together a while after
    And well to put it politely i told him to get lost :icon_wink
     
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    I recently have a crush, my brother's friend who has a beautiful voice and is pretty cute, i do hope hes gay tho, my brother told me he has hints, so thats a chance! :grin: i do hope i could meet him
     
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    Last year. A really cute guy I'd see on the city bus almost every morning of the week, and I was really looking forward to seeing him. I was still in denial back then however. Go figure. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Right now I'm crushing over one of my friends. :confused:
     
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    I still kinda have one now, lasting like 4 years now.
    Starting to get over it though
     
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    Basically over who I was crushing on, for like 2 years, which is a huge relief. Told him that I liked him, can't return the feelings, still close friends. Telling him was the last thing I needed to do, and I'm happy now.

    So basically, not really crushing right now. Last time was very recently.
    (Well crush as in I like him alot.)
     
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    At the moment, I'm trying to move on from a crush. The ones in the past just burned out in a little time, but this, this has been a year and counting.
    God, I just need to move on. =\
     
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    um...now :grin: I miss him SOOOO much D:
     
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    My last crush was this girl I saw on the bus almost every morning and I'd look forward to the stop where she'd get on and when she wasn't there I would feel a bout of disappointment :frowning2: That one ended though when I no longer was on the same bus. I was too shy to say anything though and still afraid and in denial of what others would think of me asking a girl to go out with me. Kind of regret not asking though because I really liked her and I would have loved the chance to get to know her more. Ugh...
     
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    You go girl! Good job for standing up for yourself and keeping the V-card
     
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    What's all this talk about months o_0. I haven't had a real crush in about 5 years... and the person I had a crush on was a girl lol o_0. I need to get out more.
     
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    crushes are for the weak. and i'm so lonely ;__;