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  1. danbyization171

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    Have / would you ever have sex with someone for any other reason apart from so no love or feelings involved at all??

    If you have, why? What was it like? Would you do or have you done it again?

    If you would, why?

    If no why?
     
  2. StefaniW

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    Ummm, i almost did actually. i mean i liked him, but there wasn't really anything there and i was moving so it would have been toootally sex, no relationship. but yeah, i decided not to cuz 1) i wanted my first time to be more special 2) i felt he was using me as like almost an experiment :\ and 3) i just plain didn't really WANT to, i felt more like i HAD to (ie, wanted to lose virginity). I am glad i decided not to.

    I honestly don't think there is anything wrong with just sex. for me i reaaally need there to be an emotional connection i discovered, but that's just me personally. to each their own <3
     
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    i would because it feels good, for a little while
     
  4. Ettina

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    If I lived in an era before artificial insemination, I might do a one-night stand with the intent of becoming a single mother. But with modern technology I could just get donor sperm without actually having sex with anyone.
     
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    For money (kidding) (or am I)
     
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    Sure. I'd do it for anything that I wanted badly enough. Like money. Does that make me bad? I don't think so. Its just selling a service. I haven't actually done it though.

    And there are plenty of reasons to have sex that don't involve love. Like pleasure. Stress relief. Revenge on a cheating partner (lol)...
     
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    I haven't but I would. Purely for pleasure.
     
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    I was about to post a response related to the topic,
    But then I saw illusions fluttershy, and I was like "OOO fluttershy, wait what are we talking about?"
     
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    Aww, Fluttershy...
     
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    id have sex for a cup of coffee tbh
     
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    Probably not.
     
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    A guy gave me $30 to get with him once. I felt very ashamed and was filled with self-loathing and alcohol for the days to come. His money paid for the liquor though, so it's not like it was all negatives. =p

    I do regret it though, and I'm trying to lie to my brain to forget it ever happened, but it's not really working. :\
     
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    I'm not sure if I want to go all the way full stop because I don't feel like I'd enjoy it, but I've had one night stands to third base. I don't see the problem. Sex can be fun and nobody is harmed if both parties are clear on that it's just sex for pleasure.

    But in my case, that's not always clear when I got texts after one night the other week saying 'I miss you already' and 'when can I see you again?' when I thought my rather drunken self had made it clear that I was just feeling, erm, a bit horny. Perhaps I didn't. So that made me feel pretty bad - oops!
     
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    Apart from experimenting as a pre-teen I don't know. I guess I have my price.
     
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    I took my best friend's virginity because she wanted to be with someone who had experience with sex before her first time because she didn't want to look like an idiot infront of her boyfriend at that moment, who wasn't a virgin. That was at least a year ago. I would hustle if I needed the money, but protection is always a must. But they would have to excepting of my personal boundaries.
     
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    Yes, I had casual sex with another male-bodied person before. I wouldn't hesitate to do so again.
     
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    I have and had no problem with it. It was a shared experience and it was superb

    Foxface
     
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    I would just cos umm... I like orgasms
     
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    well a part of me would like to because.....orgasms. Come on.
    But I"m also a nervous little sh** and wouldn't be comfortable doing anything unless I was sure the person liked me back and wasn't judging me.