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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Zūn Jìng, May 1, 2008.

  1. Zūn Jìng

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    I just gota get this off my chest. I don't have much time so I'll be typing fast and they'll be some errors. Whenever I see a vagina (If I do its cause friends are watching Porn>.>) I'm not disgusted by it but I'm not turned on by it. i can't imagine doing anything like that to a girl tho cause they are like my bestest friends. And I would be disgusted if I even tried to do that. So anyway.... :help:

    -Dan!
     
  2. sayitforreals

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    So.. are you just not turned on, or are you not turned on because your friends are girls?

    If you just aren't turned on, well thats okay. I mean, I can look at tomatoes and not be disgusted, but I still don't like them..

    If you don't like vaginas because your friends are girls, then maybe you'll find a girl one day that you see is more than a friend? Who knows? not me.

    Hope everything works out.:icon_bigg
     
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  3. Tim

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    I know how you feel dan lol, watching that child birth in 8th grade scarred my brain, rofl.

    Not quite sure what you want us to say, there wasn't much to the post :astonished:
     
  4. I personally find the vagina to be an icky little creature and they creep me out lol.
    Although I'm sure I'll one day have sex with a women, I'm very much gay, but still you can't knock it until you try it. Even so I'll still find them creepy and down right icky.
    Edit:Oh and I'd answer your question only I can't find it.
    How about a penis? I'm sure you have plenty of male friends who you hold dearly, can you see yourself doing anything with another guy even though you have male friends?
    I need to take a class in giving better advice, not having much experience in anything just ends up making me look like a fool. (^-^)
     
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  5. Psychedelic Bookmarks

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    Well, as derek892 says, just because you have girlfriends who you wouldn't want to sleep with, you may one day find a woman who you see differently. Or you may not. It doesn't matter, you can be happy and fine either way. Don't push yourself to find them attractive, and don't deny it if you do, just go with what feels right :slight_smile:

    Oh, and I wouldn't trust the vaginas you see in porn, if you know what I mean. Porn stars sometimes have surgery, and they all shave and do God knows what to their pussies. I expect they look very very different to your average woman's.
     
  6. Quitex

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    Porn Vaginas are the SAME as Porn dicks. You won't find a 10" dick everytime - all the time, will you? :wink: *coughs* I don't think so *cries*
    TV, movies, magazines, etc. always magnifies stuff (not literally) and they make them look TASTY and COLORFUL for a reason. Maybe not colorful, but once again, you get the idea :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I am not scared of vaginas, not scared even if I have them *on* me. However, I'm scared that if I ever EVER end dating a girl *couhgs* I somewhat find.... giving her oral sex not appealing at all. Sorry girls!
     
  7. ccdd

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    Do you know what? I don't find vaginas sexually attractive either...but then I also don't find penises sexually attractive. I don't get turned on by penises or vaginas. (Although I do sometimes by wicked cleavages on women and cool stubble on men :grin: ). So by that logic, I am asexual, and don't like anybody...

    I just find that sometimes I will fall in love with a woman, and when I do, I want to be physically intimate with her, which includes her vagina, but only because it's her vagina.

    Maybe there's a difference between what men and women find attractive, and how they get turned on, but I would look at more who you fall in love with. But in any case, if you don't find them attractive, then you don't find them attractive - that's your prerogative!! No one is forcing you too!

    Plus, I'm not sure real vaginas look like they do in porn...
     
  8. Quitex

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    ccdd, I don't think you are asexual since you already stated that you find likely to be physically intimate. I guess you're just a tough cookie. Asexual = No arousement and no excitement for anything of anyone.
    I envy you, a lot. Like in the good way. I get very horny just by the remote look of a crush and/or his penis :astonished:
     
  9. Stargate

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    Just remember there are various degrees of bisexual too, you could like guys more than girls, and things like sexuality change all the time. I'm not saying it will for you but it happens, we grow different every day.