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Almost outed!! ahhhh!!!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by nintenfreak92, May 1, 2008.

  1. Today i was almost outed. I was at a softball game when this girl, we'll call her L, and her brother (M) come up to me and said " you're gonna hate alicen (friend im out to) when you see her." I of course ask why. They said that she was spreading rumors on the bus that i was gay, I still don't know how their conversation got to that point, but they told me not to worrythat they defended me. My thoughts were pretty much:
    1.) WTF!!!!!!!
    2.) Why the hell would these to stand up for me they like hate me.
    3.) WTF!!!!!!!
    So I then " assured " them I wasn't. I talked to alicen about it and she said that she didn't know she wasn't supposed to tell. WELL DUHH YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO TELL!!!!! I forgave her though, and have cleared everything up. but right now I feel like the girl whose bf cheated on her but is dumb enough to take him back.

    P.S: im suprised at how dumb M and L are because it is pretty obvious im gay but they will do ANYTHING to make them believe that im not.
     
  2. Quitex

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    LOL!
    Well, good luck... I'm glad everything turned out a little bit good... but don't let your guard down :slight_smile:
     
  3. No One

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    "P.S: im suprised at how dumb M and L are because it is pretty obvious im gay but they will do ANYTHING to make them believe that im not."


    Well i dont think it is really that obvious but i act just like you so what do i know
     
  4. Wander

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    Don't worry too much about it, someone is sure to start a "X is pregnant" or "Y does drugs" rumor and everyone will forget about you. Just stay under the radar for a little while, explain to your friends that you want to come out on your own terms, and let it fade away.