hi i have been hiding myself for a long time and i makes me feel :eek: sick but i know i have to do it. how can i tell my best friend that i am gay without saying it? plz help :help:
in ur place i would analyze him.. for instance ask him sideways what he thinks about other than straight guys ? or if he likes to watch all kinds of pornos etc.. u know try to go sideways soo u can protect urself from a rage of his or from other people this is what i did when iw as small and that helped me thrue .. u can pm me if u want me to explain it in further detail and help u
It's very hard because you do need to know how your friend feels about gay people before spilling the beans. Most friends are fully accepting and will stand by you no matter what, but some people are still homophobic and although you are hurting deep inside now you may find that telling your friend could make it worse for you and upset you even more. Try and ask something like, "That person looks gay, what do you think ?" To start off the topic and get a feel for his/her reaction and knowing that someone will be very accepting before you tell them is a must really. Keep posting and if you do tell your friend then I wish you all the very best.
