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My hair is gay? WTF?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by BreakingGlass, May 3, 2008.

  1. BreakingGlass

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    A few weeks ago my work PC broke, I was checking some dates in my calendar while waiting for the IT Tech and a co-worker came up to me and had a conversation with me that was less than polite.

    Her: "Setting up a date with some hot chick?" :help:
    Me: "Uh...no"
    Her: "You know, someone asked me if I thought you "played for the other side"."
    Me: "Umm...okay...not that I care, but why did they say that?"
    Her: "She said it's the way you wear your hair."
    Me: "Guys don't use combs?"
    Her: "Well...uh..."
    Me: "Well what?"
    Her: "So....are...?" :dry:
    Me: "That's my business, not yours or anyone else's."
    Her: "Oh, I know your not honey, you don't act like a gay"
    Me: "Excuse me, I have to go see if the tech got my note"
    I just left before she could say anything else.
    My reaction probably outed me. :lol:

    My mom's comment was priceless. "It's none of their fucking business, not even mine, and I'm your mother, that something a person tells, not gets asked, and only when they are ready. Plus your hair? Seriously!!! What the hell!?!" :roflmao:

    It told my best co-worker friend and said. "Her knowing who I like to fuck doesn't change the fact that she's a bitch." She almost fell out of her chair with laughter.

    So what do you guys think? Should I just let it go?
     
  2. Paralyzer

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    :roflmao: HAHAHA.. you are very funny sir.. haha, you must get it from your mother :slight_smile:
    I love moms like that

    Of course let it go. She can't harass you about it or you could turn her in.
    Personally, I don't comb my hair so idk what that was about.. haha
     
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    Meh i would useless nuisance
     
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    lol I love how you just crack jokes at this. Makes me smile.

    But yeah; I believe it would be easiest to just let it go. Stress is never good =P
     
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    thanks for the laugh. just let it go as stress is a pain in the side to deal with.
     
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    Some people are like that unfortunately and EVERYONE has a personal idea of what subtle nuances are "gay."

    You're own comment is the best advice.
     
  7. Quitex

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    Your mom is awesome.

    Your hair is even more awesome.

    I love you.

    :slight_smile:
     
  8. Miaplacidus

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    I don't think your hair is particularly gay... and yeah, just ignore it, she doesn't deserve you to pay attention to her.
     
  9. otc877

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    I thought you were going to post something about the clockwise-counter clockwise swirl being indicative of being gay. But... back on topic. Your hair doesn't look gay, not that I know what constitutes gay hair anyways.
     
  10. Psych!

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    Ha ha ha. That's hilarious. PS: Your mom seems nice. :slight_smile:

    But, yeah, just let it go. She's not worth your time if those are the comments she offers
     
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    "Blame my haidresser. He's pretty gay." :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Okay....this post officially made my day for tomorrow. Thank you. *standing ovation*

    I am laughing so hard.
     
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    I get the gay hair thing all the time.
    But I take like 5 minutes to do my hair in the morning, and I dye it to a very vibrant red. So I can sortakinda understand. But I have days where I walk out with just combing it and I get the gay hair comment.
     
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    I'd say - leave it alone. Not worth bothering with. Good for you in your reaction though.
     
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    I'll just let it go. If I didn't find it so funny I probably would've cried. I had to leave to keep from laughing. Hair? Seriously?

    I do however hear rude and ignorant gay hate all the time. I mean I work for a Church Directory and Portrait company full of Republicans.
     
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    HAHAHAHA OMG that was hilarious, it took so much effort not to crack up what with my dorm mate in the room. ROFL!!!
     
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    If they have to look at your hair to see if you're gay... may there be hope for them.

    I get called a girl, and thus gay, just coz my hair goes to my shoulders. I CLEARLY DO NOT LOOK LIKE A WOMAN, AND IF YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT HAIR TO UNDERSTAND THE GENDER OF A PERSON YOU NEED CHECKING OUT.

    I'm all obsessed with hair atm after a recent incident... ¬_¬

    But yeah, your reaction and your mum's comment was ace. Oh, and if you feel you're "outed", I suppose that's a good thing, if you're ready to come out. :slight_smile:
     
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    That's great.... I woulda loved to see that reaction from my mom.
     
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    let it go....besides, like a wise man told me when i came out to him, he said" there IS NO gay hairstyle". I believe him too.