Right... well I am beginning to accept that I am gay (the degree of this is yet to be determined) (or am I supposed to say lesbian? gay is much easier to type) and that's great but I really need to get this show on the road because I'm not getting any younger and I don't want to waste my life living in fear. I have one very close friend that is supposed to be coming over tomorrow night when I get off work and I want to tell her because she is the only person that seems vaguely trustworthy enough to tell at this point but I don't know where she stands on these kinds of things. She is very open minded and all (and actually.. I kind of wonder if she is in the closet too. Okay so 60% sure she is but 40% is a big risk) My concern is that her friendship means a lot to me and I don't want to risk that so how do you take that kind of risk and trust that things won't blow up? ---------- Post added 18th Jul 2013 at 04:08 PM ---------- I know that you've all probably heard this too many times and I'm sorry if I'm beating a dead horse here.
Maybe breach the subject first? From there, you can make a better call on how you should approach things and if you should tell her or not.