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Straight friend sending me signals

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by CookieK, Jul 21, 2013.

  1. CookieK

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    Hey guys,

    I need some advice I am a lesbian, have been my entire life

    I have a straight best friend that I'm getting mixed signals and I need some advice. We have been friends for some time and I do think she is attractive and I would like to tell her and see how she feels in return

    Just some information about us,
    We stay up for 1-2 hours talking at night
    She has told me she wishes I was a guy
    She asked me if I would like to see other pictures of her
    She feels embarrassed to tell me these things and says maybe she is just horny

    But then again..
    She said she is straight
    I am married and she is friends with my wife

    What should I do?:dry:
     
  2. Wells

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    I dont think your friend is straight as an arrow. Try asking into things, like when she said she wished you were a guy. Ask 'whaddya mean by that? Or about the pictures, 'what sorta pictures?'. I think you may need a little more info.
     
  3. CookieK

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    She said she wished I was guy so maybe I could touch something
    And she was hinting that she wanted to show me her upper half
     
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    I think this is really a moot point given the fact that your'e married. Even if she isn't straight, it shouldn't really matter because having any sort of a relationship with her would involve cheating on your wife.