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Decided I'm going to come out to my mum tomorrow!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Holly, Jul 25, 2013.

  1. Holly

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    So, in 12 hours time, hopefully I'll be out to my mum.

    I'm currently laying in bed trying to work of ways of bringing up the subject...

    I'm actually terrified. I don't even think she's going to react badly. I'm more scared about how I'm gonna say it, and if I'll have the guts to...

    Wish me luck?
     
  2. LelliLou

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    good luck sweetie. let us know how it goes. will be thinking of you!

    xox
     
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    Good luck sweetie, I hope it all goes well! :grin: <3
     
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    No luck for you!

    I wish you courage and I wish you finding the positive in whatever life may throw at you!
     
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    It is good to trust your family

    I wish you and mom the best
     
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    Good luck! Hope she takes it well! Keep us posted! :slight_smile:
     
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    Good luck! Have u considered writing a letter... I think thats the way i would go when coming out to my parents that way i wont have to memorize all the things i need to say..might make it a lil easier :slight_smile:
     
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    Oh good luck! Let us know how it goes. Wishing you the best!
     
  9. Holly

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    It went well, mostly. Part of me feels like I should be happier, because she didn't freak, and she was accepting. Perhaps it hasn't just sunk in yet. I'm still surprised I actually said the words 'I'm gay' to her...

    Thank you for all the support. It definitely helped me find the courage to actually tell her!

    You can find my thread in 'Coming Out Stories' here.
     
  10. sammy1

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    Good for u :slight_smile: for me those 2 words would b incredibly difficult to say to my parents outloud! I came out to a friend of mine through a text a few days ago because we were talkin about relationship stuff and i couldnt even say it then :S all i said was 'its hard to date when your inthe closet' lol