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Just A Quick Question

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Stargate, May 7, 2008.

  1. Stargate

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    #1 Stargate, May 7, 2008
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    Thats really not that gay.

    and even if it was, who cares.
     
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    its enough gay for me
     
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    haha it's awesome. If you dont get it I will. To pop ones cherry is more known as a straight thing than a gay thing.
     
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    I don't understand what's gay about that shirt...
     
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    Its a pretty slim / metro looking shirt and people automatically assume its gay oriented where as in fact its just preppy.
     
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    It's really cute. :grin:

    I wouldn't guess anyone wearing it was gay though. (well, not any more gay than usual)
     
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    Haha, that is not gay at all..
    I think it's just more prideful in clothing and style than anything

    If it's not exactly a secret that you're gay..
    I think the shirt is just as ambigious as you are. Get it.
     
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    I wouldn't worry about it, as people as said, it's really not ultra-gay looking and I doubt it would invoke too many questions. I might be wrong though, as I'm not in your situation. I would probably get if I was you, cos I think it looks pretty hot
     
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    All I see is a woman rolling around in a bed :eek:
     
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    It's not gay at all I would say.

    The only "gay" thing about it is that it's A&F... :wink:
     
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    Oh man, I'm out of touch...

    I don't even get it. I mean, I get the cherry part, but how does one 'pop a collar'?
     
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    Im glad I'm not the only one, Jim, but the age difference freaks me out.

    *goes and learns some english sayings*
     
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    Take a huge step towards coming out. How? By being comfortable being who you are. By buying clothes and wearing them because you like them. Not because you think your friends will approve. Not because they're fashionable. Not because they're A&F. But because you like them.

    You like the shirt? Buy it. Wear it.

    Lex
     
  15. Jeffers10

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    Hey!

    A) That shirt makes me really happy lol.

    B) I don't think it's necessarily "gay". No more than any other A&F shirt. Besides, I know a lot of straight guys that shop at A&F so I don't think anyone would think otherwise. Especially with the whole popping a cherry thing.

    C) @ Jim: Popping a collar is when people unfold their collar so it stands up.
     
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    Ahhhh! Ok. Wouldn't that slogan make more sense on a shirt that actually HAD a collar? Never mind... it's the logical accountant in me that thinks that way - not the fashionable gay guy in me. :icon_bigg

    *frantically searches for the fashionable gay guy in him so as not to be tossed out of EC for his fashion faux pas!*
     
  17. Adrian

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    Doesn't seem that gay to me although I don't really understand the slogan.

    Just buy it, if you end up not buying it just for the 'gay' thing you'll end up feeling really frustrated and down, whereas it'll be something of a boost if you do.
     
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    I say go for it, buy it and wear it.

    I've seen shirts that are a lot more gay than that one, so don't worry about it. Besides, everyone takes things differently, some people might associate it with totally something else, and if someone thinks that it's gay, then that's their problem, not yours.

    How much is it?
     
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    neither do i
     
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    I think it's friggin' awesome!

    Who cares?