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I have crushes

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by zumbo, May 15, 2008.

  1. zumbo

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    I can't tell anybody else about my crushes so I'm telling about them here.

    My first crush looks like Turk Melrose of [adult website name removed]. He's one year younger than me, discreet and smart-looking. Girls get flirty around him and I'm not sure if he's gay but there were times he would glance at me as if he was checking me out.

    My second crush also seems to be a year younger than me. I really like him because he's tall and he's got a cute bright baby face. I was so happy when I saw him peeing in the dorm's public CR. (!) I think that he's aware we're both checking each other out.

    Unfortunately, I'm too afraid to be rejected to make the first move so I'll just let my feelings go away.
     
  2. Martin

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    Hi,

    The website name has been removed from the post. This site is PG-13 so everybody please be extra careful not to mention any adult websites. :grin:

    Thankies *bows*
     
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    You don't have to do that if you don't want to. If you're too afraid to make the first move, you could make them make the first move. You could try being ambiguous, say things that they would react to in a certain way in case they were gay and interested in you. However, if they're not, then you should definitely let your feelings go away :icon_bigg
     
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    Why? What do you have to loose? Your pride? C'mon! Ok, there's a chance they
    won't feel the same way, but according to your post there's also a chance that
    they do. Why not take a chance? If they do have the same way, you have so
    much to gain! Don't let that get away because you might not get it.
    If you want him, then get your ass in gear and GO FOR IT! You never
    accomplish anything by sitting there and waiting for people to do
    things for you. If you want it, then go get it! Don't doubt yourself,
    life is too short to not try, you ARE CAPABLE! This is coming from
    someone who lost the one he really wanted because he was too afraid
    to go for it, and has gone for it ever since and many good things have
    resulted. To sum it up, GO FOR IT!
     
  5. zumbo

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    I haven't even talked to either of the guys so I'm really clueless. Anyway, glances tell something, don't they?

    Maybe I'd repay either a cheerful glance next time any of them glance at me. :icon_redf