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Life after comming out

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Zam, Aug 15, 2013.

  1. Zam

    Zam
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    Location:
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    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    mom-He already told you he is gay
    dad-No he's not
    mom-Yes he is *dad shuts up*

    Yep so comming out for me is like beofre,exepts my parents say that once each 2 weeks
     
  2. TyRawr

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    Well remember that there are 5 stages to loss, and though they have not lost their son, they have lost the idea of a straight son. They are denial, anger, bargaining, grief, and acceptance.

    Sounds like your mom has accepted it, and you Dad is coming around. Dont let it affect the way you think about him, he's probably just a little emotionally unattached to a lot of things, and is having a hard time squelching any kind of feelings he has right now. Im sure he's a mess also.

    Give it time, get it love, give it effort.

    Much love dearie,