Hi, Larry. Welcome to EC. I was married at one time but have not come out to my former wife. Are you still married? Do you want to stay with her? Have you figured out what you want?
There's another member here, stevieboy1 who posted in this forum a while back with almost the same situation. you might try contacting him. I also know that Jim1454 and a couple others have been married, so your best bet is to wait a day or two till they post in this thread welcome to EC!
You might also take a look over at the sister (?) site ###'s messageboard. There are quite a few formerly/currently married gays/bisexuals there. Lex
YOu asked if I would like to be with her? The answer is yes, but I know we can never live under the same roof again. Thank god our children are grown, they don't know about me yet, but I feel they suspect. We were together 31 years, and it's had to turn off you emothions in a flick of light switch.
Hi Larry. Welcome to EC from Jim in Toronto. I was married for 10 years, so can relate to your situation. I'm not sure what your story is though, so tough to offer advice. I'm at the cottage this weekend, so responding here using my blackberry (you gotta love technology). PM me though if you'd like to chat in more detail. Many cities (like Toronto) have support groups for 'gay dads'. You might reach out to one of those as well. Again, welcome.
Hi Larry - I have started a topic with exactly the same title in the "coming out" forum. I explain my story, which is fresh and still painful. Many of the responses I received were very helpful and encouraging. You are not alone there. Peter.
