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Wow... I wasn't expecting that...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Kaisoo, Aug 21, 2013.

  1. Kaisoo

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    So I was laying on my brother's room talking to him, we were laughing and stuff and everything was just how it normally is, but then he went serious and told me he is bisexual, I was pretty happy with it I hugged him and said I'll be supporting him on everything he does.

    but should I actually tell him that I'm a bisexual (probably lesbian) too?
    Somebody help me out:help::help::help::help::help::help:
     
  2. Ritor365

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    First off, congrats that your brother feels close enough to share that with you!

    I would say yes, come out to him. It might make him feel even better and see he has someone to relate too!
     
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    I would say yes :slight_smile: He trusted you.. trust him.
     
  4. Kaisoo

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    How should I say it? Idk I'm scared

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    How to do it?
     
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    He was probably scared before telling you, he's going to react the same way you did when you told him. Tell him whatever way you feel comfortable with, but don't be scared!
     
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    Well, keep in mind, I'm not good with serious coming outs, mine are always silly, so I may not be the greatest, but with your brother, I'd say something along the lines of "Hey ____, remember the other day when you told me you were bi? Surprise, me too!"

    If it were me, I would have a fist full of cut up construction paper confetti to throw in his face, but that's just me xD
     
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    hahahahahhahahahahah okay I'll think about it hahahahaha

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    thanks for your advice!!
     
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    Agreed, just say "He broski, you remember when we were talking and you said you were bi? I am too, but I might be more of a lesbian."

    I can't imagine he would have a problem with it!
     
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    Hey there! (*hug*) So I would go with what the previous posters' advice (especially the one with confetti =) ) I have experience with coming out to brothers, although mine is straight. Let us know how it goes! (*hug*):thumbsup: You'll be fine! =)
     
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    YES!! If he is you should be totally open with him... Maybe you could help each other to meet people and go to places together and things. I think you should tell him. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!