I prefer to be called gay rather than bisexual. Even though there is a chance I could be bisexual. When I come out of the closet, I want to tell people I'm gay, even though I do get romantic crushes on girls. I have no idea why I'm like this.
This is exactly like me! Sexually speaking guys do nothing for me so I feel like a lesbian but romantically I can get crushes on men! Some of the crushes on men are strong like the ones on women too. Plus since I've come out people are confused when I have crushes on a guy so now it's taboo for me to like guys?! So confusing. I would just go by what you feel most comfortable with.
Actually, it is probably easier to say you are gay because when people say they are bi, a lot of people just see it as being petty or hormonal or questioning, and not a legitiment orientation.
Oh my GOD! I feel the same way as you do! lol. I'm so glad I'm not alone in this. I mean I'm so attracted with boys but I still have crushes with girls too.. And still, I prefer to be called gay.. the term bisexual scares me in some way.