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I don't know why I'm like this

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by person57, Aug 22, 2013.

  1. person57

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    I prefer to be called gay rather than bisexual. Even though there is a chance I could be bisexual. When I come out of the closet, I want to tell people I'm gay, even though I do get romantic crushes on girls. I have no idea why I'm like this.
     
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    This is exactly like me! Sexually speaking guys do nothing for me so I feel like a lesbian but romantically I can get crushes on men! Some of the crushes on men are strong like the ones on women too.

    Plus since I've come out people are confused when I have crushes on a guy so now it's taboo for me to like guys?! So confusing.

    I would just go by what you feel most comfortable with. :slight_smile:
     
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    simply ,because guys are just hotter :wink:
    nuh , really , i think because you are into men more than women
     
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    Actually, it is probably easier to say you are gay because when people say they are bi, a lot of people just see it as being petty or hormonal or questioning, and not a legitiment orientation.
     
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    Oh my GOD! I feel the same way as you do! lol. I'm so glad I'm not alone in this. I mean I'm so attracted with boys but I still have crushes with girls too.. And still, I prefer to be called gay.. the term bisexual scares me in some way.