Let's just dive right in! I am transgender MtF. I am not out to anyone yet but I am out as liking boys for over a year now. I appear as a VERY feminine (I have passed as a girl many times now) male and pretty much everyone accepts it which is awesome. But last year when I came out as liking boys I made it into such a big deal and got so worked up about it and it ended up giving me such bad anxiety. And this time round I've been thinking... Do I even need to bother yet? I mean who's business is it even? I have been accepted for who I am already so why go through the whole 'coming out' phase again? I am pretty sure a lot of people already know as I surround myself with very open minded people but I would like some clarification one day. What should I do? Thanks :eusa_danc
I would still tell your friends about being trans* - as long as they're supportive of you then you'll find it will likely help the process of transitioning and make it easier by having that support system.