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He is GONE!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Tokarov, May 21, 2008.

  1. Tokarov

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    THATS RIGHT! My crush that I have been crushing on for a whole year, has just graduated, and I couldn't be happier!

    Everyone says it goes away over time right? Is that what happens with you guys?

    No more crying, no more ranting...ahhhhh (relaxation)

    This is more of a "let things out" more than anything else. He's gone, and over time, He will leave my mind too.

    I'm hoping that everyone is right, that over time, it will go away from not seeing him.
     
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    i think it will- happened with me last year!
     
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    Hope it happens to me when I leave at the end of this term...there's this girl that I simply cannot get over...
     
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    I thought it would, and for a while I thought it did. But then my crush decided it'd be fun to contact me on myspace, and after a couple days, the crush was back, and stronger then ever -.- And he's teasing me to boot, ever since I told him I did have a crush on him XD

    But my other crushes did fade over time :wink:
     
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    I think this is a good thing for you Tokarov. Now you'll be able to move on and get on with your life, and you'll be able to enjoy it. :slight_smile:

    Many hugs and I'm still praying for you that things look up for a long time :slight_smile:
     
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    My crushes went away after a while of not seeing the person, so im sure this will be a good thing :slight_smile:.
     
  7. ccdd

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    That's brilliant! I've always found that the best way to get over a crush is to ignore the person, which is exactly the thing you never actually want to do... I am currently trying this no-contact tactic with my present crush....
     
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    Good to know you're feeling good about it. In time, crushes fade away especially where there is no visual or virtual contact.
     
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    Don't wait for time to work its magic on you. Get out there, get busy, get social. It'll happen a lot quicker. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Hm~ Did not go away for me. But I am glad~
     
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    Man...I'm just happy. I got tired of crying everytime I saw him or heard his voice. Soon after summer is over, he'll be out of my mind, and I can start the new year.

    Thanks for telling me it will go away with time guys. I needed to hear that. Plus, we never talked, so he won't ever be contacting me.
     
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    Aw shit, that's the same thing I'm having now!!

    My crush's gonna graduate in June next year! Agh, no more seeing him!

    I guess I have to find some more hobby to do then! :grin: