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Am I ugly?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by xxAngelOnFirexx, May 22, 2008.

  1. xxAngelOnFirexx

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    my sister and therapist seem to think so. they have a problem with the way i dress and the make-up i wear. my sister said "i didn't call you ugly. i just wanted to" she also said "well you wouldn't have self-esteem problems is you didn't look that way".
    i just don't get it. i'm just being myself... :confused: :icon_redf

    (check my profile for pics)
     
  2. Alex

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    0.o you are not ugly
     
  3. jazzrawr

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    Sweetie, youre not ugly!!

    youre so pretty. obviously your sister and therapist have a problem with your style, but everyone has different views of pretty. but in my opinion, youre beautiful. :slight_smile:
     
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    You're very pretty. If they have a problem with the way you dress, forget about them. You have to like how you look and screw everyone else.
     
  5. Austin

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    You are definitely not ugly =O
     
  6. Peridot

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    I LOVE the way you dress. Seriously, it's awesome. And you're very pretty, too.
    And you shouldn't even listen to them. My mom thinks people who dye their hair are freakoids and ugly. Well, I think they look cool.
    Also, the way you dress DEFINETLY does not influence your actions or emotions. You could be wearing a bright pink shirt that has a little cartonnish bannana singing "I love the world" on it and be the downiest person ever. The way you dress is just who you are and what you feel comfrotable in.
     
  7. You're gorgeous! I love the way you dress. Don't listen to them, they don't know what they're talking about (*hug*)
     
  8. Lexington

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    One question only to answer - do YOU like the way you dress, the way you wear your make-up? If so, then absolutely nothing else matters.

    And get a new therapist. This one sounds like a moron.

    Lex
     
  9. EthanS

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    your definitely not ugly i think she means ur fashion sense
     
  10. ccdd

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    YOU ARE NOT UGLY!!

    In fact, from what I can see, you are everything but :slight_smile:

    But seriously, it sounds as though your sister may be trying to wind you up (mine spent most of her life calling me things). How old is she? In any case, I really would not listen.

    It is also very unprofessional of a therapist to make comments on your personal appearance, or to in any judge you, or make you feel uncomfortable. I would consider getting a new one.

    But you are not ugly - that is exactly the opposite thought I had when I first saw your photos. So PLEASE do not listen to anyone who says otherwise. And dress how you want to dress, and ignore everyone else.
     
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    Your sister and your therapist are bullshitting you. Maybe they are jealous.

    You are not ugly at all. You are a nice and a beautiful woman, judging by the profile (nope, i'm not flattering here!) Everyone is unique! :grin:
     
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    You're not ugly. And I don't think anybody on planet earth is ugly! [YOUTUBE]qN4VOFeSc-4[/YOUTUBE]
    sugarbabes - ugly
     
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    :eek: you're gorgeous! You have really pretty eyes
     
  14. Miaplacidus

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    You're hot. And yes, I like guys better, so you really are.
     
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    You're not ugly. You have *natural* beauty rather than the fake, model-ish, airbrushed photograph look.

    Don't let the comments get to you, your sister and therapist have no respect.
     
  16. Helen

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    I agree with Heatqueen. I get a hell of a lot of abuse for being the only girl in the entire school with short hair, but I try my best not to let it bother me, because I'd hate to be so mainstream as to join the 'blonde highlights straightened long hair' club.

    Having had a looksie at your profile, I can safely say that you're definitely naturally beautiful, and personally I love your hair and piercings ^_^
     
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    Firstly change your therapist and tell him to change jobs, who the hell is he to say who is beatiful or not.

    You are far from ugly and like Lex says, if you like the way you look and dress nothing else matters.

    I'm going to break things down here;

    You have lovely clear skin
    You have lovely hair
    Your clothes look fine to me, maybe not my taste but then I'm not a 16 year old girl
    Your body, what we see of it, looks lovely too. You can say what you like you certainly don't look either too skinny or too fat to me, just right in fact.

    In what way could anyone possibly say that you are ugly! As for your sister she is just being very childish and spitefull, that is the sort of things 5 year olds scream at each other when they are arguing!
     
  18. lolo sime

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    your cute! they are ugly!!
     
  19. Maddy

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    You're most definitely not ugly. You're very pretty.
     
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    No you are deffinately not ugly. What's wrong with how you dress? I don't see anything wrong with at all.