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new to gay world.. having problems

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by quietman_ron, Feb 21, 2007.

  1. quietman_ron

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    hello all
    My name is Ron and I live in the USA..
    I have recently admitted to myself my true feelings and desires.. that is that I have more feelings toward men in a sexual and intimate manner then I do with females....
    I have been married 2 times to women and both the sex was like.. so whats the big deal..did not find it enjoyablt to the point that I was quiet during the act.. and basiclly had to fantasize to complete.. yet when with a man there are total sensations.. disires and feelings that leave me warm and energized.:eusa_danc
    I problem I am having is I am what is called a Chubby... I stand 6ft 4in... and weight in at 290 do not know what that is in stones.. and a vast majority of gay men are looking for the rock hard formed male bodies of younger man.
    How does a man in his fiftys who is a chubby find a mate.. not a one nighter or a random sex partner.. but someone who whats a caring person in there life..
    I get alot of hits but mostly for one time sex... there is more to life then that.
    and yes I have been used already by a man I meet on line and talked to for several weeks before meeting.. we met had sex for about 5 hours and it was great.. but then he blocked me from calling and will not responded to emails.
    OH WELL.. one of lifes lessons I guess .. not letting it bother me but now I am not sure who is for real and who is just out to get laid..
    I need some advise
     
  2. tired_of_lying411

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    I'm SURE you'll find the right person out there somewhere :thumbsup:

    And welcome! It's always great to see a new face!
     
  3. TriBi

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    Hi Ron :smilewave

    Welcome to EC - no age limits here. You may not find your "true love" at EC but you will find a lot of good and friendly people to chat with.