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My coming out hell...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by jdeb1992, Sep 9, 2013.

  1. jdeb1992

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    I came out to my mother last week when I thought it was a perfect timing. She even said she accepted homosexuality... Well apparently she doesn't accept a bisexual son... She was crying how it is my life choices and she will still love me (but not accept it) and how my dad gave up on girls before she met him (and that is different than being attracted to men and women,) and about how I don't act gay (although I am bi and that is also a total stereotype.) And she told my dad who is more conservatively viewed than her. Yay!! I should have just pretended to be 100% straight the rest of my life.... :***:
     
  2. Dryad

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    God, you scare me a bit. :eusa_doh:
    I would argue and get mad at them until they accept that this is who I am. But I wouldn't advise you to do this. :confused:
    Maybe they need time... I don't know.
    I hope the best for you... :confused:
     
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    It will take time, she has to go through the whole mourning process for what she thought you were and what you really are.

    Don't argue, just let this pass, but don't give in either, not an inch! There's no turning back, make no promises that you will try to be anything but what you are.
     
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    As long as she still loves you nothing is more delicate than a mothers love
     
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    I think she may being going through the five stages of grief, right now she might be in anger. It's ok dude, it'll pass. She loves you, and nothing will change that. I know it's hard to believe right at this moment, but it will get better (*hug*)
     
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    Thanks so much people!!