1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.

Having a hard time.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Secretman, Sep 11, 2013.

  1. Secretman

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Aug 15, 2013
    Messages:
    0
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Seattle
    Gender:
    Male
    Out Status:
    Out to everyone
    So apart from depression and some medical crap going on, I've been having a hard time with this. Part of me just wants to go and tell everyone I'm bi and get it over with. But there's a small part of me that wants to keep it a secret forever. I've always had trouble deciding things. So anyway, do you think it's better to tell people on at a time, or just kinda let everyone know. I could easily deal with everyone knowing, but I'm kinda scared.

    EDIT: I think I'm mainly scared that people will treat me different. Apart from that I'm super close to just telling everyone.
     
    #1 Secretman, Sep 11, 2013
    Last edited: Sep 11, 2013
  2. bingostring

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Nov 15, 2008
    Messages:
    2,083
    Likes Received:
    113
    Location:
    England
    Gender:
    Male
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I would just let the information out when you know it is safe (i.e.: to a trusted person first) and when you feel right about it.

    Keeping it secret forever doesn't sound healthy - or necessary - there will be something in-between.

    Hope you can improve your depression in the process !