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the first person i tell likes me....

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by thatconfusedguy, Sep 18, 2013.

  1. thatconfusedguy

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    I am a gay freshman and I am closeted and I finally built up the courage to tell my best friend (a girl) at first she thinks I'm joking then once I get her to realize I'm telling the truth she gets upset and Tells me she's always liked me a lot and now she's upset and thinks I'm going through a phase which I convinced her I wasn't now she doesn't treat me the same I can upload the conversation if nesecary advice (*hug*):tears::bang:
    She was taken by suprise and was clueless
    in her defense it was out of the blue and I showed no signs
     
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  2. bscott92

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    Give her a little time to digest everything. When people are really clueless about who you are, it can take them a little while to process it all.
     
  3. So lost

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    Just wait if sh really is your friend and cares about you she will come around soon