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Facebook post tomorrow

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by RainbowMan, Oct 10, 2013.

  1. RainbowMan

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    I'm going to make a Facebook post tomorrow for National Coming Out Day, just outright ripping the Band-Aid off. Thoughts?

    What do you think?
     
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    I think it's great. I was actually thinking of doing something like this myself. Your letter sums everything up perfectly. Good luck! I really hope that you go through with this, because it's a great next step and a good idea. I was thinking of telling my parents tomorrow and maybe some friends...
     
  3. RainbowMan

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    Well, I've already provided my immediate family advance warning, so I'm committed at this point! :slight_smile:

    (and I've gotten responses from the two brothers that I thought might have problems with it - none whatsoever)
     
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    That's great. it'll go fine. don't even try to worry at this point.
     
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    Tom Cruise as Joel in "Risky Business": "Sometimes you just have to say 'What the fuck'. "

    :eusa_clap
     
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    I wish I had the guts to do that. Props to you and I really hope it all goes great.
     
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    Very well written, and it pretty much sums up the life of a closeted person. Hope you only get positive responses :slight_smile:. Congrats, it's a big step.
     
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    All that needs to be said can be summed up like so: :thumbsup:
     
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    RainbowMan, that is awesome. So awesome, in fact, that I plagiarized a majority of what you wrote into my own Facebook coming out status... But I'll start my own thread as to not steal yours.
     
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    That's great! Very gutsy! I was thinking of just saying "Happy National Coming Out Day! :wink:" as I've already changed my "interested in" status a while back but I don't think anyone really looks at that. I'm too afraid to make an announcement because I'm a pretty shy person anyway so I was thinking that this more passive way is more my style. Still really nervous though. Like, I have it all typed out and I just haven't hit that damn post button yet! gah! haha
     
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    I read your post on the way to a meeting today. You had me chuckling with putting up a GPG signed copy of post.
     
  12. RainbowMan

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    Hey, had to be non-repudiated, right? :grin:

    Anyhow, the response was entirely positive, just as with drs. My family was completely awesome, some of them didn't know, especially some extended family.

    BTW, I just checked the webserver access log. 34 unique IP's have hit that URL, so I guess you're not the only one that found it cute :slight_smile:
     
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    Glad to hear that yours went well too! Congratulations!
     
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    Glad it went so well, and that the responses have been all positive. :slight_smile: