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I'm scared I'm going to be questioned!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Zular462, Oct 11, 2013.

  1. Zular462

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    So tomorrow I intend on going out as Katie, the female side to my gender. I already have a wig which my mum used for Halloween once, before I get changed I'm going to buy some proper clothes from a department store. My question is when I get to the cashier desk, should I be honest and come out to the cashier or should I try and conceal it?

    This will be my first outing in my female form, obviously once I've bought it all. I was thinking of coming up with some story, like "I lost a bet", but maybe it would be better to just say it if they ask? :icon_redf feeling a little anxious
     
  2. WiliamRoberts

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    First of, good luck :slight_smile:

    I doubt the cashier would care too much, and if you're really worried, keep in mind you don't need to tell people yet.
     
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    I would just say the "I lost a bet thing" if you get asked about it. No need to come out to a total stranger. :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't think they'll ask - they'll think you're buying it as a present for someone. But if they do, come out to them if it will make you feel good, or just lie if it will make you feel bad. Good luck :slight_smile:
     
  5. Valerie

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    Just tell them you're buying it for your sister for her birthday if you don't want to come out. It's none of their business anyway :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: