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confused? not sure whether or not to come out?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by stepp5150, Oct 11, 2013.

  1. stepp5150

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    so im going on 18. and im really confused. since i was 13 ive been thinking, "what if im gay?" i fellt it a little but ignored it heavily. as i got older it came around in high frequency.. now its all i think about. i keep thinking i wasnt meant for girls. i felt i used to. now i just feel like im attracted to guys now. im so confused that im having dreams about it :/
     
  2. Saint Otaku

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    If you don't feel sexually towards girls at all, then you are more than likely gay. Being in a traditional Christian home, it was so hard to accept myself, but now that I have, I feel so free!

    Still, think harder upon your situation. All my support to you and good luck!

    (If you would like to ask me about my experiences with sexual development, just ask!)
     
    #2 Saint Otaku, Oct 11, 2013
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