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dropping the hints...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by this is me, Oct 18, 2013.

  1. this is me

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    I don't like having to tell people, "oh hey im gay!" anyone know anything to do o say to get people to think im gay???? :confused:
     
  2. Suffocation

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    This is going to sound really awkward really fast, but one time me and my friend were talking about porn, (She didn't know I was gay) and then she asked me if I watched gay porn, and I said yes, and a lot of it. And then we just discussed what we were into.

    But like you get my point, you don't need to say "Hey I'm a lesbian! cool beans" but like if you are discussing something about girls or something maybe like give a big hint, like I did. In other words, tell them without telling them. (I'm really confusing rn just ignore me.)
     
  3. BookDragon

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    Is that something that often comes up? I might be alone here but I rarely find myself in a situation where I feel the need to tell someone that anyway!

    Can you give us an idea of WHEN you are needing to tell someone you're gay?
     
  4. hitgirl

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    I am really bad at this as well. I notice LOADS of opportunities all the time to slip it into conversation and then I just let them pass.
     
  5. lovely lesbian

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    Yea been there today my family talking about my sisters friend and that the fact she is gay and i really really wanted to tell them but totally chicked out I seem to be around these conversations a lot lately maybe it's a sign.