This girl I really like just pretty much rejected me.. nicely, but it still hurts... Any suggestions on what to do?
I know it's difficult but I think the best thing you can do is accept the situation, and move on. It is painful to love someone who doesn't love you. Many of us have probably been there, and many more will go there. Being gay/lesbian makes the chances much more likely I think, because it is likely that the person we desire will be straight. I guess that doesn't help much really... (*hug*)
Eh. But she isn't straight. So I guess I feel kind of hopeless I guess. Whatever. If it isn't meant to be, it isn't.
I am SO under-qualified in the girl talk area of my social life.... dry: damn closet) So all I can do is (*hug*) hope things turn around... how about another hug? (*hug*) And happy music always helps me out of a stooper. one more, for the hell of it (*hug*) :lol:
I think that kinda makes it worse. If she was straight then there is an obvious and understandable reason why it can't be. But in this case you don't have that obvious barrier, so it seems like it could have happened, but didn't. It does seem as though it just isn't mean to be. The good thing though is that she tried to refuse you nicely. It was a difficult situation for her and she tried to be as gentle as possible about it. What would be really cool, though I don't know if it's possible, is if you can remain or become good friends out of this. Meanwhile here's another (*hug*) to add to the collection. That's a good idea. Try to avoid listening to sad music, it just makes you feel worse.
We'll be friends I know. Thanks for the collective hugs, guys. I appreciate it. =]] Lots of P!nk, the Fray, and Dixie Chicks made me happier. =]
(*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) ......apparently thats all it's allowing me to post? lol. TECHNICAL ERROR!! WE LOVE YOU. And remember "beautiful are the uses of adversity" -william shakespere In other terms. There are plenty of fish in the sea that swing you way honey. You'll find someone, your funny, smart and very very nice. *says valiantly*And if she won't date you i will. *big homosexual leap* *hands in resignation to flamboient man behind a counter* *picks of "switching teams" form* *fills it in, wait in the line right behind michael jackson* Ehh, this might take a while. I'd stick with girls if i were you.:lol:
LMAO KYLE! I just laughed so hard. It's okay I guess because nothing really came out of it. Just the rejections that hurt. Either way, I suppose I could start scouting my school...I hear we've got a flourishing gay community- I just don't know much of it. & what part I do know are the boys. =P
LOL, bitch puhleazee. If i was over there i'd bust out the ice cream, put on the notebook and cry while listening to cyndi lauper's "time after time". I got your back guitargirl Don't listen to these amateurs pfft. (Just kidding tired....xo haha) YAY! I made a sad person laugh!! *crosses life-goal off of list* lol And i know rejections hurt like a MF, after building up confidence and such. But just try to put it behind you and move on
