Not able to deny bing gay?

I find it hard to lie blatantly to people's faces. Having said that, the only time i've ever been asked if I was gay I said no.

Mostly because of the tone in which she asked... I had just met her and we were walking to class together when one of my friend comes up and calls me Queer-o (we have an inside joke where we call each other queer-o and butch face respectively, don't know how it started, little does she know...) so the girl overhead and asked if i was gay. I said no without even batting an eye. I was surprised at myself.

But, other than that one time I've never been asked I am gay, so I don't really know

 

I really don't like lying in general, so it's really hard sometimes. I don't get asked a lot, but it's happened enough times that I've learned to just sort of beat around the bush and inconspicuously change the subject.

Hah, one time, when asked if I was straight (what an odd thing to ask...), I replied "mostly." That's as close as I've come so far. How lame.

 

no one really asks if im gay but i dont hide it so if they asked i think i would say yes

 

I think once a person accepts and knows their sexuality themselves that it become really hard to deny it when asked.

Inside us all there is some urge for people to know we are gay (assuming we accept it) as well as a moral objection to lying to someone face to bluntly. But maybe the fear of word spreading or of rejection holds us back. One day you will be able to just say 'Yes', then you know you are out!

 

It depends on who is asking and why they're asking.

If it is someone that you want to know, "Yes" or "Mostly" are good answers.

If it is someone that you don't want to know, you can say "Are you?" or "Why? Are you interested in me?" or "Nunya bizness".