Crazy Night Yesterday X_X

Do what you are comfortable with, nearly the same happened for me, was really excited and all, but i bailed i was not comfortable where we were so i left, and went home and i do not regret it at all.
Just dont do anything for the sake of doing it.

 

Well i talked to a guy, was going to a party with him, and he asked if i wanted to sleep over at his place when it was over, excited and all i said yes obviously. But as i said, i didnt like the situation etc. so i just went home.
Just make sure that you have options of getting somewhere else if things should go wrong.

 

Pick your line, tell him where it is, and stick with it. If you want to watch porn and jerk yourselves off together, but don't want him to touch you just yet, let him know. He should be cool with that. And if he attempts to push you over that line, just firmly push him back in the other direction.

But if you're thinking you wouldn't mind moving on from there, the gargoyle says, "Condoms. Lube. NOW."

Lex

 

>>>He told me something about oral . but i am pretty sure we wont go that far? But you never know.. because when your horny, your in a whole other world.

Exactly. Precisely. And what are the odds that, if you're in that other world, that you'll decide to take time out to go get some condoms and lube?

Get them now. Practice with them now. Have them with you when you're together. And then you won't ever have to say you're sorry.

Lex

 

*sniffs*

Your growing up so fast. *sniff* I say you should do what you said you would do, "Get to know him a little better." But if you feel like yuo can do it regret free that by all means, "Do it." Just make sure to stay safe and don't do anything just because he WANTS you too.

>_> Btw, how is it that my gay apprentice (lol just kidding!) get's a special friend and I'm left in the dust?

 

>>> But yeah, i told him to bring some "plastic and lube" just in case.

No no no no no. Do NOT rely on him to bring them. Get them yourself. WAY better safe than sorry.

Also, have you met him in the flesh (ahem) yet? I get the feeling from your posts that you haven't. If not, I'd suggest your first get together be sex-free. Just go grab a shake at McDonald's or something. See how you feel in his physical presence.

Lex

 

lol wooww you are lucky! lol congrats. I would just see if you're comfortable with him and if you like him then i'd decide about the porn thing..

 

I would again urge you to make your first day together to be sex-free. Why? Because it'll make the sex more comfortable. You'll be used to being in his physical presence. As hot and excited as he makes you online, it WILL be different when you first meet up. Maybe different better, maybe different worse, maybe just different different - but definitely different.

>>>also where should i get condoms without being embarassed and lube?

Without being embarrassed? Nowhere. But you may as well get used to it. Will the person ringing you up think "this kid is going to use these to have sex?" Sure, maybe. But the person ringing you up when you buy toilet paper might also think "this kid is going to use this to wipe his butt". And you don't have any trouble buying that, right?

Condoms are EVERYWHERE. Department stores like Target and K-Mart. Grocery stores like Safeway. Convenience stores like 7-11. Most of these places also have at least some lube (convenience stores may not) - it's almost always right next to the condoms. Pick up a pack of each. If it makes you feel more comfortable, pick up some other innocuous stuff you'd like/need as well - snacks, socks, whatever. Some grocery stores offer self-checkout, so that might be a place to try if you're really embarrassed.

Then, when you get home, PRACTICE. Practice opening the pack (NOT WITH YOUR TEETH!) and slipping one on. Practice putting lube on. Try putting a bit inside the condom here and there to see how that feels. When you're finished with it, practice taking it off. Then toss it in a plastic bag, tie it up, and take it to the outside trash can.* Unless you want your parents asking some rather uncomfortable questions.

Here's what you're aiming for. When it comes time for you to do something that involves a condom, you want to be able to say "Great!", grab a package, pull one out, lube up the inside how you like it, slip it on, and lube up the outside like you've done it all your life. You don't want to have to fumble with it, start putting it on backwards, use way too much lube or not enough - these things are going to kill the mood somewhat. And you don't want that, do you?

Lex

* - oh, you might want to get dressed again before you take it out to the trash can.

 

>>>idk why but i am soo excited

Dude, there's a really good chance that really soon, you'll have sex for the first time. How can you NOT be excited?

Lex

 

Yes. I'd say it's safe to say that he does. And I'd say it's safe to say that you're interested in the idea, too. You both seem interested, so it's not "pushing". Just make sure that you don't push him past any point he doesn't want to go, and make sure he doesn't do the same to you.

Lex