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If you ask a girl this question and she said

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by lolo sime, Jun 10, 2008.

  1. lolo sime

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    I been crushing over my best friend for 7 years. she is fine with me being Bi and that i like her. my friend is bi curious she is a close touchy feeling person. I ask her if she likes me more than a friend and she reply "Not as of now sorry i see you as a sister".
    my other friends said it means later in the future we will get togther. she is all about school and i am just struggling with my long trem confusing feelings for her. i am dealing with school too (college). anyways i just want your out take on this.:thumbsup: what does she mean "not as of now":confused:
     
  2. SamAlex728

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    sounds like it means that she can see herself possibly developing feelings for you in the future
    but as ive told you many times, we cant know like you can
    srry
     
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    It means "Not as of now."
    Does it preclude something happening in the future? No.
    Does it imply something happening in the future? No.

    Lex
     
  4. hongkong89

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    yea, i think for now, you should just stick to being friends. like you said, she sees you as a sister. if she is actually ignoring her feelings for you because of school, then that's another thing completely.