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oh dear god, oh dear god... need help NOW!!!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by deadmau5ftw, Nov 9, 2013.

  1. deadmau5ftw

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    So my friend and I were fb chatting and she said this:

    maybe not for you
    unless you're gay
    but Id assume not


    What do i do??????
     
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    she is an artist and she draws naked people and lesbians making out... and I obviously don't like girls..
     
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    I doubt she meant anything by that.
     
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    Well, if she's a girl and draws lesbians then there shouldn't be a problem coming out to her? Assuming she isn't homophobic...clearly they wouldn't think of drawing anything like that, lol.
     
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    Knowing what she draws, you should be able to safely come out to her. But if you want to. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Just remember that she may react differently because you are friends with her(I'm guessing...?).
    I hope this helps. :newcolor:
     
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    She is livestreaming her drawing things, so I think I am going to send her a picture to draw... Ill update if I tell her.. Wish me luck!
     
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    Why not just confirm it, and say: 'I'm gay.' Given that she is drawing pictures of lesbians making out, she should be pretty supportive. :slight_smile:
     
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    OMG I DID IT!!!! She was so supportive!!! I feel so great!!!
     
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    Well, congrats! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Congratulations! Well done! :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanks!! I feel so wonderful!!!
     
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    Your life is about to get a lot simpler, I think, and your friend closer. Congratulations.
     
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    I'm glad she took it so well! Congratulations!
     
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    That's awesome! (*hug*)
     
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    Congrats deadmau5ftw! It's a great feeling of happiness and excitement and everything all mixed together when you come out to someone who is supportive. Way to go! (*hug*)

    Lots of love,
    J
     
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    Thanks for all the support!! It felt SOOO great finally telling someone.. We talked and found out that we both like muscular guys!! I'm sooo happy!!