By being who you are, without making decisions on what you do, or how you live, whether in order to hide your sexuality, or to show it. By that I mean don't let sexuality be anything more than it is. Someone is who they are not because of their sexuality. Therefore for example for a guy don't pick sports over Arts just because ones more 'straight' than the other but equally if you like sports then you like sports but like guys too. Hope I got my point across x