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Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by girlonfire, Dec 9, 2013.

  1. girlonfire

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    every time I decide "I'm gonna come out to so and so today" I get all confident but then when I come within five minutes of it I make up all these excuses on why I shouldn't and then I don't. :tears:

    someone help me please :icon_sad:
     
  2. Nocturnal

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    There is no rush to come out; decide when you are ready or feel confident about it.
     
  3. Yossarian

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    Maybe you should come out by writing a letter to whom you want to come out to. Once you throw it into the mailbox, there is no turning back.
     
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    Why don't you write a letter to your friend a put it in his/her locker? that was you cant get it out. you could also play truth or dare i think everyone asks this one who do you like. if you happen to like a member of the same sex then tell them
     
  5. girlonfire

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    thanks for responses.

    I've always felt that when the time came, I didn't want to come out over text/letter/whatever. I've done too many things over Facebook and it's just a way for me to hide behind technology. And my friends aren't exactly the "truth or dare" type :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I think the only real way to attack this and feel better about being bi is actually telling someone in person, but how do I get over the huge wave of anxiety that comes when I have a shot?