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I'm Bi...

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Andstillimhere7, Dec 10, 2013.

  1. Andstillimhere7

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    I'm bi... Bilingual hahaha. But all joking aside, I tell my friends this joke and I get blank expressions or awkward faces when I do.
    Me: I'm bi...
    Them: :eusa_eh: or :eek:
    Me: Bilingual
    Them: ha or that was awkward or oh for a minute there

    I do that to see there reaction and some are just scary because they are possibly homophobes/biphobes. So it's going to be hard to come out. Should I come out or what? I just need help with this situation I'm so lonely I keep seeing this hot guy and my heart flutters.
     
  2. Data

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    Ha! :icon_twis

    Coming out is based largely on what you feel in your heart and what kind of environment you are in. Safety trumps all, but if you feel like you're ready and want to do it, come on out.

    You have a crush eh? Elaborate!
     
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    Well most of the population is Mormon.
     
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    I have to say that made me :lol: It could be a good way to know who is say to come out to also.
     
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    Yeah I know that's what I'm waiting 2. For someone to say "me too" or "really I'm gay" before the bilingual part.
    Me: I'm bi...
    Him: me too
    Me: :icon_bigg
     
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    hahaha, that's really funny. You might be careful though because your friends might be waiting for the punchline the next time you come out.
     
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    Hmmmm, I have a gay Mormon friend. I've never asked him what his fellow Mormons feel about it. I should.

    Do you think this guy you like is gay or bi?
     
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    Idk really and yes sometimes I do have to watch out because people might not trust me
     
  9. RanDoublev

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    I'm taking this joke!
    :lol: :badgrin: