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friends fine with you coming out but you aren't....

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by lajp, Dec 11, 2013.

  1. lajp

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    ...and they don't understand the big deal?

    I feel I have no one to turn to because my friends feel I should be cool with it. My mates at college forced me to accept I was bi and gave me a coming out party. I spent all my 20s with men who weren't interested in my bi side. Now I have now met a man who is and always be the love of my life, but he is encouraging me to be myself which is tending towards being gay. He encourages me to pull girls so I can discover this part of me but its a mess every time. With men I could snap my fingers and get what I want but I feel like a 14 year old with girls and fuck it up every time. None of my friends understand this...I feel embarrassed, ashamed and every day wake up hoping I've suddenly turned straight...