Coming out too much ??

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by bdpotter, Dec 12, 2013.

  1. bdpotter

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    I'm wondering if i'm moving too fast about this. In just like 5 months, i've gathered courage to tell a few people that i'm gay. First I told my brother (who's also gay), than to my best friend, then to a colleague, then to my closest cousin ... and almost everyone i meet new i tell them if they ask about relationships. I've moved to another country (netherlands), that is super liberal, and feel really comfortable here, as opposed to how i felt in my country. My brother who is also gay, says aren't you moving too fast with telling everybody, cause he didn't tell that many people in such a short time.
    I'm asking for someone else's opinion...?
     
  2. BookDragon

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    Are you comfortable with people knowing? Yes? Then you're not moving too fast.

    If people ASK what are you supposed to do, lie to them until you know them better? You're fine, keep doing what you're doing.