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Lol, that's what they wanted!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by darkestknight, Jun 20, 2008.

  1. darkestknight

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    Once upon a time, while I was dreaming away (no thanks to exhaustion after doing stupid crappy assignments)... out of the blue, I remembered my parents told me that, "If you get a girl, then you will forget about boys...and c'mon, it's a phase! Your fantasies!"

    Immediately I sniggered at this thought.

    Hell, I have almost 2 girl crushes, and 2 (and also anoter 2 almost) guy crushes. I was like halfway crushing over 2 girls when I was 19-21 and crushing over a guy in my 2ndary school for a few more years! What makes them think that I'm still fantasizing??

    And my ma begged to get myself a girl as quick as possible, and my pa afraid of me "turning into gay" because i like guys. Lol, I wish I could say I like both there... but all they told that is all the other shit like Adam and Eve story...:roflmao::roflmao:


    Also, right now I don't feel like getting a girl partner. Not now, or not later. I'm hunting for a guy partner. Do that make me 100% gay ? Nope. Because I still like girls. (*hug*)
     
  2. Nanzuniko

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    My mom was drunk once and she started randomly hitting me saying "You're not gay!" making a fuss about things. Oddly, I have done nothing to even show her that I like guys. I wonder what gave her the idea :confused:
     
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    I sometimes wonder the same thing. There are more parents who suspect their children than one might think - several times, I've caught family members doing and saying things they wouldn't do unless they thought I was gay. And I get the girlfriend question A LOT. So do you have a girlfriend yet? Are you looking for one? Any girls at school you like? No, no, no.
     
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    omg I really hate that. :dry:

    Parents sometimes don't get the bisexual thing. I don't see why, though. People are funny :eusa_eh:
     
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    Lol that is funny. How can it possibly be a phase if your at the point of telling them! :lol:

    I agree that often parents know more than we reckon. I think my parents (or mum at least) knows/suspects that I'm gay. She NEVER brings up me not having a girlfriend (and only ever having one) & kinda just avoids the topic... sigh. She'll be fine tho I reckon once I finally tell her.