Admittedly, I have yet to have anal sex with a man, and as that's the case, I have a ton of questions. Here is one that has perplexed me lately. Before I realized I was gay with a minor in straight studies, I was with a girl who was very sexually enlightening. One thing I discovered was that fingering her clit and finger-fucking her was a totally different sensation for her. Now this allowed me to be very creative and understand her body in a whole new light. In a certain sense, I have come to a realization of a similar nature. When I am getting off, the best sensations only come when I have an intense sensitivity in my ass. However, it is entirely different than the pleasure in my cock. I feel like they aren't yet connecting, and have a sneaking suspicion that after having anal sex, I may be a bit more enlightened. Yet, I wonder, could I get off just by being the catcher? Because how intense that pleasure is, I would love to. P.S. - When I get off, I entirely lose the sensation in my ass, and only feel pleasure in my cock...
idk wtf u guys are talking about....catcher?:eusa_doh: what? the topic moved from anal sex to baseball now?:eusa_eh:
I probably should've gone into a bit more detail. Can you reach orgasm from anal stimulation alone? Yes. It's not as common as all that, and it's rather unreliable, which is why you don't see it in porn that much. But if you're of the type, if you've got the right guy, and he gets you in the right rhythm, then yes, it's very possible. As it happens, though, I'm more a top - I much more enjoy getting a guy there than getting there myself. And Alex - "pitcher" and "catcher" are slang expressions for "top" and "bottom", respectively. As it is, I'm both versatile AND prefer other activities. So if somebody asks me "Pitcher or catcher?", I usually answer "Third baseman." Lex
great. Butt Sex 101 what did i learn today....hummm:eusa_doh: right! thirdbaseman is versitile and Lex is ...huh? I am soooo confused. Lex...u said u prefer helping a guy "get there" than actually getting there urself and u also said ur a top...how comes ur a thirdbaseman now? coach put u in the dougeout? :lol:
oh, fantastic!:dry: I came to EC to discover, to learn about my "unatural" nature and i am been treated like a child... well yes of course i am a child but i don't need to be treated like one. Do u know how smart the generation of 16 year olds are today?! Smart enough...we could go on the mooooooooon :lol:
Alex, in US ocassionally there are couples at the clubs in the T-shirts below. It's funny, but I always think it's too much information for me. :eusa_doh: The third baseman thing was a joke- it's only "pitcher" and "catcher" although "switch-hitter" is used for a guy that is bisexual. One of the things that's fun about these forums is the slang that I've learned. But we don't mean to treat anyone like a child- in all seriousness, some of this stuff is stuff that as you get older, you will think, "Ooooh. I get it now!". :lol:
You raise some very good questions that I also wondered about until I discovered the answers recently. Whether someone derives intense sexual pleasure as a bottom varies from guy to guy. Some guys I have talked with have never enjoyed bottoming, so they are pure tops. Others, like me, are versatile and can enjoy anal sex from both ends. I can tell you from personal knowledge (yesterday!) that there are some guys (not me) who can actually reach orgasm when bottoming. For me, bottoming is an intensely pleasurable experience, which is made even more so by stimulation of my penis. Everyone’s body is different, so you will have to experiment to see what feels best for you.
Because of the close proximity to the male "g-spot" I would say yes. Explore you sexuality in a safe way, it is completely different for everyone.
WOW, love the shirts, i might have to invest in them lol, but yeah, i think im more of a bottom, dont get me wrong I like the top end and everthing, but just sitting here thinking about bottoming drives me wild.
i'm still 10% gay because i DO want to try "pitcher and catcher" i still think i'm too young besides i have no boyfreinds/girlfriends, so i'm shit out of luck!!! *cries*
personally like i like being the pitcher and hitting it out of the park and into the mouth by the way im only 11 and ive already had gay sex lol
